Ambre Jade, Author at Domme Thoughts

Returning To Erotic Hypnosis

November 11, 2013 by Ambre Jadein Hypnosis2 Comments

Finally, I will be returning to Erotic Hypnosis. Not that I was ever really absent from hypnosis itself but I have had some very limited availability. It seems as though everyone around Me is having some sort of crisis. Be it health, emotional, even spiritual, I have been there to help pick up the pieces. I also suffered from My Own health crisis but it seems like all that is over with. There will be more on that in the future. All this to say, I have been extremely busy and really only had time for custom recordings and My in person subs.

So now that there is time and I am completely available and committed to returning to erotic hypnosis over the phone and coming soon hypnosis via cam, more on that in the future as well.

It takes an extreme amount of commitment to be a full time HypnoDomme. Now that My health and personal life are more or less stable I am ready to recommit Myself to My past and future subs. I am also making a commitment to further recorded erotic hypnosis sessions. My session “My Light” will be available for free via this site. It will be coming out soon. I just have a few things to edit before it will be available to the public. I am extremely excited with the recorded erotic hypnosis session that will come! I have 4 series in the works and some long, deep sessions. It will be great to share them with you.

For those of you looking for something live, you will have to arrange it with Me. I am going to be more available but I will still not be “full time” on the phones. My priority is My health and family obligations. This makes impromptu sessions difficult to organize, though not impossible. I would strongly recommend though that you arrange your sessions before hand. I will be returning to erotic hypnosis but to devoting My entire life to phones, messengers, twitter, etc.

As well as returning to erotic hypnosis, I am also looking for an in person submissive woman, or self identified woman for an LTR. you must be comfortable with polyamoury and be willing to play in the softer side of a D/s relationship. I do not and likely never will enjoy inflicting pain on women! So there is something a little more personal than I usually talk about!

your mind is Mine,

Ms Ambre Jade

Scheduling Hypnosis Sessions

July 29, 2013 by Ambre Jadein Hypnosis

As most of you have no doubt noticed it is getting harder and harder to get a hold of Me on yahoo. No, I am not mad at you. No, you did not do something wrong. I am just not in front of My computer as often as I once was. So now it is getting more difficult for some of you to comprehend scheduling hypnosis sessions. It is actually quite simple. Yahoo is not My primary form of communication. I know it is hard to accept. you will learn to live with it though. This is not to say I am not available on yahoo. It just means it is not the best way to reach Me.

So what is the best way to reach Me? EMAIL. Email really is the easiest way to schedule a hypnosis session. It lets Me know when you want a session and allows Me to ask questions should it be necessary! It is the perfect medium. I prefer that you do your part in scheduling hypnosis sessions versus calling randomly. My focus this year is My health and sometimes I am not available to pick up the phone or I just do not feel like it or I am already on the phone. I am sure you can see how emailing would be advantageous!

I ask that everyone scheduling hypnosis sessions emails Me in advance! With a time that works for them. Keeping in mind that first time sessions are a minimum of 45 minutes! This allows Me the chance to finish what I need to finish prior to our hypnosis session! Those of you who know Me well know how much I hate being interrupted. It really does not matter what I am doing I just hate being interrupted. Scheduling hypnosis sessions allows Me to create and interruption free environment either for sessions or whatever else I am working on.

This is as close to begging as I will get! Please email Me, scheduling hypnosis sessions and not just calling! This also allows Me to turn on My niteflirt line should you prefer calling through them! It is normally off.

your mind is Mine,

Ambre Jade

Understanding Desires

July 13, 2013 by Ambre Jadein Domme Thought, Hypnosis2 Comments

The work of a submissive and a Domme for that matter is never done. Both have to excel at understanding desires. On the side of the submissive, s/he must understand their own initial desires. This is of course before becoming owned (should that be your desire). Once ownership is established it becomes more of a collective agreement between Domme and sub, with Me anyway. This agreements are of course forged prior to any session and during the session… well I have all the power and I use it however I want to. your purpose is to please Me. But I digress. This is an important discussion.

you, as the submissive, are responsible for understanding desires. Understanding your own desires. If you want your limits push, you are the one initially responsible for communicating that desire to Me. Once W/we have an established relationship that changes. This basically applies to those of you wanting to begin a journey with Me. you do not need to understand why you have these specific desires but I need to know where you would like to see a hypnosis session lead. Mind reading is sadly not among My many talents. Though once W/we know each other well enough, it becomes less clear.

Understanding desires is not as simple as it seems and desires evolve over time. What was once a hard limit becomes softer over time. you may also find that what was once a soft limit becomes hard. Oui, hypnosis can easily change or push you and your limits. It is a unique adventure even in helping you discover your limits. Some things seem erotic but only in the unknown. Hypnosis can allow you a media through which to explore. With a Dominant Woman beside you, you will feel safe and open and ready to explore.

So if I, Ambre Jade, can create a realm in which your limits can become fluid, why would I want to know your limitations? Because I would like U/us both to enjoy the moment. I like to have an understanding of where you are coming from and starting from. I like understanding desires so that I may mold them and create new ones. Whether you are starting out your experiences in erotic hypnosis or you are an old hand and looking for a new Mistreess or concurrent One or if you are looking for exploration through hypnosis, you still need to understand and voice your limitations.

Let’s try an example of voicing a hard limit vs a soft limit.

“i really like wearing panties but i am not really into pink. I do not want to do anything with another man even though i like dressing up.”

There are 2 separate limits and a desire there. The soft limit is the colour of the panties. In fact, this limit is so soft one could even argue that it is not really there. The second limit, the hard limit is “forced-bi”. As you can easily see the desire is dressing up. This vocalisation of both desire and limit is complete. It is enough for Me to create a fantasy. I would have further questions just to confirm that I am completely understanding the desires vocalised here.

Understanding desires has so many different little tiny nuances that it is difficult to sum them all up here. But what you have to understand as a submissive or a hypnosis lover is that you need to understand where you are starting from. I have heard many people claim to have no limits only to get pissed off when a Domme decides to do x when he was expecting Her to y. Creating a positive, great hypnosis experience takes two people. you do have a certain responsibility here. Just remember that once the hypnosis session starts, you are completely absolved of any responsibility allowing you to drift away and let go.

your Mind is Mine,

Ambre Jade

A couple of post script notes: Do not forget to follow My healthy 4 Ambre tumblr and twitter @healthy4Ambre as well as Miss Haylee Lynn’s @healthy4Haylee

The pictures used today were from vecteezy, the artist is diegobuey!

Chaste Hypnosis

July 6, 2013 by Ambre Jadein Femdom, Hypnosis4 Comments

There are many ways one can look at chaste hypnosis. For example, I am currently speaking with someone who was having trouble dealing with his chastity. he and his Wife play chastity games… Anyway not the important part of this. The important part is in recognising that he was having trouble with his feelings about remaining chaste. Not during the experience but after being teased and left. he would feel like he should be allowed to cum. Now T/their arrangement is T/theirs and My contribution is merely changing his emotional response, to reminding him that his satisfaction is not important at all. That looking into his Wife’s face is satisfaction enough. There I go digressing again.

Hypnosis is a powerful tool to any D/s relationship. Even when the Dominant party is not part of the hypnotic process. Like the previous example, I am not the Dominant in T/their relationship but I am helping Her control want belongs to Her. I am retraining his mind. Chastity is about more than just accepting someone else’s control over your most intimate moments. It is about sacrifice. It is about giving something up for your Goddess.

Chaste Hypnosis Device — Choosing the right chastity device is important. Long term versus short term, makes a difference in your choice. Please discuss the device with an expert (including Me).

Some Goddess want money, gifts, tasks performed, etc. There are many forms of sacrifice. Chaste hypnosis is another form of sacrifice. you, the submissive are giving up control over your orgasm. I am taking it and telling you when and how you can actually cum, if ever. This is a sacrifice on your part. I control one of your baser instincts. Something that has been biologically programmed into your mind because something I control, something I determine when and if it comes into play. This is true power. Using your own instinct against you. your desire to orgasm because the carrot I can dangle in front of you. you will do anything for Me, for the chance to perhaps orgasm. Even your most primal urges below to Ambre Jade.

There is no resistance. Chaste hypnosis can also control your cock, well it now belongs to Me so really it is My cock. As time passes, you become more and more submissive. Not only to the Goddess who holds your orgasm but to all Women around you. you recognise the small things that when you were too busy being a chronic masturbator, you never even noticed. Chaste hypnosis opens your eyes and changes your hormones and allows you to really notice all the tiny things your Goddess does for you. Even something as simple as making eye contact while walking through a room becomes more satisfying than an orgasm.

Chronic masturbation leads to an expectation to be satisfied through orgasm. It is nature’s ultimate lie. Mother Nature lies via the hormones that rush through your body. your satisfaction should come from knowing that your Goddess is pleased, that She is smiling, that you have done all that you can for Her that day. That is true satisfaction. your needs are secondary to Hers, your orgasms are not even part of the equation. Controlling your orgasms is merely a way to prove how much you need Her. How much you are willing to sacrifice to your Goddess. She takes care of you, She deserves so much more than you can even give Her. Be generous with what you can share, your orgasm, your time, your worship.

your Mind is Mine,

Goddess Ambre Jade

your Chaste Hypnosis Specialist