Category: Hypnosis

What are your Erotic Hypnotic Goals?

by Ambre Jadein Domme Thought, Hypnosis

I have written about erotic hypnotic goals in the past. I think back in 2014? OMG Am I that old now, Jebus…. Anyway, I wanted to revisit the concept. I am and always have been an incredibly goal oriented woman. Every action I take to have a purpose, blatant or not. I don’t need you to know what it is, just know there is always a reason for everything I do.

That being said who establishes these erotic hypnotic goals? Is it you or is it me? A fair question. The answer is both. I like to have discussions with my subjects prior to any erotic hypnosis interactions. The first session tend to be more focused on me and you getting to know each other. How responsive you are? What language you respond to? What ideas or prompts work best for you? Essentially, a first session is like a first date, but more expensive for you.

Erotic Hypnotic Goals with Ms AmbreJade

Goals and Ownership

I do not have cookie cutter goals for all my subjects. I cannot and do not want to own every one who would like to have a session with me. There are only so many hours to my day, and I am a busy ass woman. That is not to say we cannot work towards goals together. It means that the erotic hypnotic goals we create will be based on moments and time spent together, rather than daily interactions and ownership. Is that the case with everyone? No. I would just like to make it clear that I take ownership, Domming, insert appropriate term very seriously and I cannot have everyone living in a 24h power exchange dynamic with me. I know my limits. The results would be some shitty cookie cutter D/s dynamic where neither of us grow.

Can we play together without ownership? Yes! Can we create and work towards erotic hypnotic goals together? Hell, yes! And in those moments we spend together, there are moments and times where you will feel as though you belong to me.

Creating Erotic Hypnotic Goals Steps:

  1. I have a series of questions I like all new subjects to answer prior to any session. You can use these question for a few purposes. You can see what you want and do not want. And knowledge is power for the hypnotist. I can into this in more detail another time.
  2. Figure out what it is that appeals to you about hypnosis. Is it the letting go? Is it orgasming? Is it submitting to the hypnotist? What is it that makes hypnosis the best tool for the task at hand?
  3. What sort of behaviours do you want to modify? I love conditioning and brain washing and all those delicious morsels of programming. What would you as the subject want to change?

The steps to creating that potential change, should are really up to the hypnotist. Together you should both create a plan and put together your erotic hypnotic goals.

What are some goals you would like to set?

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Trance, Let’s Talk About It

by Ambre Jadein Domme Thought, Hypnosis

It’s time for us to talk about trance. Erotic and other. Let’s start this off with a little recounting of my activities on Saturday. My usual Saturday activities were on hold for some health shit, all is well, don’t worry! So it left an opening on my Saturday. Wouldn’t you know it, there was going to be a workshop on erotic hypnosis at a local dungeon. I took this as a sign from the universe that I should attend, so I did. This was not like a deep dive into the ultimate tool that I have found hypnosis to be, but rather an introduction, 101 kind of course.

For those of you who don’t know, I love to revisit things. There is something magical about the basics. On occasion, we all get lost in the complexity and more hardcore representations of our kinks, hypnosis is no exception. I would even make an argument that it is easier to lose sight of hypnosis foundations. I will likely touch on this in a later post.

The workshop itself focused mainly on inducing trance. Nothing really beyond the letting go aspect. No suggestions, no fractionation, no NLP, no behaviour mods, nothing like that. After a presentation, we were given the opportunity to induce trance with our partners and other participants. As someone who really does not like having another person near my mind, I consequently and selfishly did not allow others induce trance on me. (I have some issues with control and I have some adverse reactions, stories for another time.) Ever the educator, I really wish I had allowed someone the opportunity. However, I know my current boundaries and am respecting them.

trance

And Now, Where Does Trance Fit In?

Following this workshop, I spent a good amount of time thinking about the activities I perform daily. Looking at which ones are trance adjacent, if not trance themselves. I do a lot of things that can be seen as a form of trance. My morning routine is always the same. My evening routines do vary, regardless there are certain sequences of events that happen repeatedly. I practice martial arts, essentially performing the same series of movements over and over and over and over and over and over…. you get the idea. This is my trance, this is where I let go. Routine.

What aspects of your daily life involve trance? Have you ever stopped to think about it? In this sort of online domain of transactional sexuality we forget that not all experiences need to be sexual or bought. (Not that I am discouraging you from purchasing things, just making a statement of fact!) We have moments of trance regularly, throughout our day, usually completely unaware that we have entered this state of consciousness. Take a few moments and really think about… List the moments where you let go. It can be playing video games, listening to music, anything routine, anything really.

How Can We Harness This Daily Trancing?

I think there are many ways we can use our vanilla trance moments for darker, more nefarious purposes 馃槈 Using other techniques, we can bring in anything from simple to complex behavioural changes by harnessing these moments. An example, that’s what you really want right?

Let’s say you have a bedtime routine. The same hygiene routine, same procedure every time you prepare for slumber. Add a change to it. Add a new aspect to your routine. Change will happen faster as the process is already established. Every night, I want you stroking for me before bed. You have the loop of me telling you to stroke. Consequently, you play it in your headphones throughout nightly routine. After a while, you will hear the loop, without plaing it. Brushing your teeth will have my thoughts and words dancing in your mind. The power of daily, even vanilla trance provides amazing opportunities for behavioural changes, and modifications of all kinds

Imagine what an experienced Hypnotist could do with such things.

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Erotic Hypnosis and Attention Issues: Best Practice

by Ambre Jadein Domme Thought, Hypnosis, Life Coaching

Do you find that your attention span is shorter than “normal”? Many people with attention span issues are under the erroneous impression that hypnosis, erotic or otherwise will not work for them. Erotic hypnosis does and will work on anyone! Those with attention issues have a multitude of things working in their favour. While the shinny thing in the corner might be distracting, that ability to hyper-focus is an asset when it comes to hypnosis. It’s all about how you use the tool available to you.

Erotic Hypnosis and Attention Issues

That ability to hyper-focus is your greatest gift. It may not seem that way at first. You are easily distracted, however when you manage to train your mind to focus, it will be an incredible asset for you. The challenge is finding the best way to harness it. How do you use your unique mind to create amazing experiences with erotic hypnosis?

Erotic Hypnosis and Attention Issues Best Practice List:

When listening to recordings:

  1. And this one is really important! Regardless of what is said within a file, if you need to twitch or move around a bit, embrace that. I know it goes against the “be very still” mantra that is often used in hypnosis recordings (mine included). However, allowing yourself the chance to stim might be the best way to focus on the words being said.
  2. Listen repeatedly. You have access to recordings for as long as you keep them. Why not use them often? Even if the desired effect is not working the first time, repeated exposure will familiarise you with both the voice and the file itself. Try to listen in a dark room, or staring at a spiral, there is a reason these things are cliched.
  3. Really use your imagination. Those with attention issues have a tendency of being far more imaginative than those with “standard” attention spans. Use the power of your mind to really give in to the scenario. The mind is a very powerful thing. Focusing on details and tiny elements will help you engage more in the experience.
  4. Know that trance is achievable for you and just enjoy the experience. Don’t spend the whole time angry or annoyed that it is taking so long (common response). Just listen and enjoy.
When doing a one on one:
  1. Make sure the hypnotist is aware of your attention issue. This will help them adjust the pacing of the session.
  2. Aim for shorter more intense sessions.
  3. Combine it with other aspects of your sexual desires. For example, edge throughout the entire session (if you have permission)
  4. Try to avoid video sessions. The likelihood of distraction is higher. Focus on voice.
  5. Establish a rapport with the hypnotist beforehand. Be comfortable with who they are. So you are not distracted by mannerisms and tones and cadence.

There are many ways to make the most out of your hypnosis experience. Erotic hypnosis and attention issues do not have to clash. Shorter attention spans do have many up sides, including a more vivid imagination.

What tricks do you have?

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Guided Meditation vs Erotic Hypnosis

by Ambre Jadein Domme Thought, Femdom, Hypnosis, Life Coaching

Guided meditation is a passion of mine. I have been spending a good chunk of time these last few weeks writing new erotic hypnosis content, and it struck me. I would also love to create some Guided Meditation sessions as well. So I started and I have to say, the results are lovely! A few will be coming out shortly.

Isn’t Guided Meditation and Hypnosis the Same Thing?

In a nut shell, no. They are different. Both create an environment of relaxing. The way I see it, and I suppose, others can, maybe even will, argue with my views but fuck it, I am writing this piece… Guided Meditation is a journey, an adventure for the sake of self exploration and relaxation. Hypnosis can also be a journey, depending on the style, and fosters deep relaxation. Where it differs, erotic hypnosis has an ultimate goal. There is a behavioural change that the hypnotist creates or deepens throughout the session.

This is a wonderful thing. I, myself, delight in creating deeper, more responsive submission from my marrionettes. However, sometimes it is nice to just explore your sexual experiences without change.

Why Wouldn’t you Want Erotic Hypnosis?

Why would someone chose a guided mediation session over an erotic hypnosis session? The answer is fairly simple, at least to me. A guided meditation session will allow you to explore your own sexuality, your own sexual views, kinks, fetishes, etc. Whereas erotic hypnosis is telling you what and how to feel regarding specific sexual experiences. The wording makes it seem like erotic hypnosis is bad, it really is an amazing experience. The manipulation of it is incredibly sexy. That being said, sometimes we just want to relax, and if there is some sexual tension and sensation with that, all the better!

Best Practice:

Combine both erotic hypnosis and guided meditation to create a truly amazing experience. More time with my voice, a better understanding of your own submissive needs, feeling my control… What more could you possibly ask for?

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Letting Go for the First Time

by Ambre Jadein Hypnosis2 Comments on Letting Go for the First Time

Do you remember letting go for the first time? Do you recall the first time you completely submitted to a hypnotic trance, erotic or not? I find there are fewer and fewer people experiencing erotic hypnosis for the first time. Perhaps this is because My rates are high compared to when I first started offering hypnosis sessions. This is likely why the new hypnoslave is currently so elusive for Me. While I miss dealing with people who experience trance for the first time, I like charging an appropriate rate for My services more 馃槈 Perhaps a cheapy day a month or something… But I digress.

How well do you remember letting go for the first time? Do you think back on it? A lot of people either have fond memories of their first experience. That first moment when they truly let go and experienced the delights that erotic hypnosis could provide. When they realise to what extent erotic hypnosis is truly the ultimate expression of submission. Imagine if you could harness that power, the newness of the experience and bring it forward into ever hypnotic experience you have from now on? While I am sure you have experienced deeper trance, the excitement that accompanies something new, is a powerful thing.

There is power from letting go for the first time, there i power in recreating the experience or at least revisiting the emotions that ran through you as you submitted to the will of another for the first time. Power not only for you who experiences it but also for Us HypnoDommes who provide you with that experience. It creates a stronger connections and when done properly, will fortify the bonds between slave and Goddess.

Imagine if the experience of letting go for the first time was with your current Goddess! Imagine if you were an erotic hypnosis virgin until you met Her and every experience has had Her as your primary focus. The intensity that would create!

What was your first time like? Do you still worship the same HypnoDomme?

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Meaningful Mesmerizing Memories

by Ambre Jadein Femdom, Hypnosis2 Comments on Meaningful Mesmerizing Memories

It’s not enough to just experience erotic hypnosis, I want to create meaningful mesmerizing memories. The type of moments that you reflect back on and your body and mind respond immediately to the memory. The type of moments you get lost in for days, weeks, even years to come. Upon returning back from a rather lengthy hiatus, I have noticed that so many of you have memories, thoughts, impressions, that have lasted for so long! This is what hypnosis is about. It’s about submission, of course. Control, for sure. Getting into your head and making it My playground, absolutely.

The Impact of Meaningful Mesmerizing Memories

  1. They can and do act as triggers without being specifically geared to that effect. A powerful memory can be just as effective, if not more effective after time, as a trigger. Erotic triggers serve to bring you to a space similar to that you experienced within a session. They can also be used to affect future behaviours in certain situations. While a meaningful mesmerizing memory does not necessarily influence behaviour as successfully as a trigger, it can however impact your behaviour to a deeper degree than you may have originally thought.
  2. A rush of hormones similar to the experience itself. Every experience, good or bad, brings about a flood of hormones. Our (healthy) endocrine system responds automatically聽and the hormones released will depend on what the body needs when facing that moment. When dealing with memories, our endocrine system, depending on the intensity of the experience, can respond. Not as profoundly as it did when you first experienced it but the hormonal response has the potential to stay with you. Think of the release of oxytocin when thinking back on a really epic joining or sexual other sexual experience.
  3. A whirlwind of emotions. This can be either a positive or a negative, depending on circumstances.

Not only can memories, actual memories impact you in these ways but using erotic hypnosis, a HypnoDomme can create meaningful mesmerizing memories. Memory implantation. The events feel and seems so real that they impact you in the same fashion as mesmerizing memories. This can greatly impact the possibilities for mind control. So many possibilities.

Can you tell the difference between what is real and what has been planted?

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Hypnotic Resolution for 2016

by Ambre Jadein Hypnosis

Our solstice set up 2015. Made My Own hypnotic resolution then.

Finding a hypnotic resolution can be simple with the right motivation. By motivation, I mean suggestions from Me 馃槈 While I do not usually encourage New Year’s Resolutions as they generally fizzle out within a week or so, I feel that it is important that we have goals and work towards them. I have written about knowing your hypnotic goals in the past and I believe this is crucial to reaching the maximum potential of your hypnotic desire. Create a hypnotic resolution that complements your ultimate hypnotic goal.

Guide聽to creating a Hypnotic Resolution

  1. Know your hypnotic goal. What do you want to achieve before the end of 2016. No, this is not your resolution. This is the end game goal. your hypnotic resolution should be the first step to achieving that goal.
  2. Make sure it is actually possible. So many people break the covenant they make with themselves because ultimately, their resolution was just not possible. This serves only to discourage you from future success. So make sure your hypnotic resolution is doable.
  3. Adaptability. Create a resolution that is adaptable. Not only should it be possible but it should also have the ability to change over time and as you advance toward your ultimate goal.

Starting point for your Hypnotic Resolution

Still not sure where to start? Here are some things to think about when creating your hypnotic resolution this year.

  • Desire, what do you desire? What do you want?
  • Direction, where do you want to go? What direction would you like to see your hypnotic moments go?
  • Habit, why not create a new habit? Repeat your daily affirmations upon waking every single morning. Listen to My voice while falling asleep, set up time every day to devote to Me.

Ultimately, the hypnotic resolution is for you to discover and strive towards. While I am available to help you create a resolution that is both doable and adaptable, this is for you to discover and implement.

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The Trust Factor

by Ambre Jadein Hypnosis

The trust factor is often either overlooked or taken for granted within the Hypnotist-subject dynamic. In My experience, most people assume that trust has been established through virtue of having a single communication. And while you can trust the intentions of your Hypnotist from a single encounter, the deeper, almost palpable trust connection takes time to really establish itself. Each interaction solidifies the initial feelings of trust and helps manifest as a truly trusting relationship. Why is trust so important? Can Hypnotists succeed without trust? How does this pertain to erotic hypnosis and should it be something we strive for?

The Importance of the Trust Factor

I talk about trust a lot. It plays an important role in all our relationships from your neighbour to your Domme, your partner. We have so many relationships and so many of them deepen when the trust factor is taken into account. An individual trusts that their neighbours will not break into their home. Trust. If you don’t know them, you will be more hesitant to open your door to them. The trust factor allows relationships to extent past their default setting. When you trust, you are more likely to open up and step out of your comfort zone. When looking at a power dynamic, like D-s or Hypnotist-subject, trust allows you to explore things more deeply. Something simple like spanking, for example, can be seen as abusive but with the trust factor in place, what can be perceived as an assault becomes erotic, sensual. Erotic Hypnosis works under a similar premise. If you trust your Hypnotist, then the deeper you are able to go.

Erotic Hypnosis Without Trust

Erotic hypnosis can be experienced without trust. It is not essential to a superficial hypnotic experience. Without trust though, the experience becomes just that superficial, with a deeper dynamic. While it can be fun, and is generally the starting point to most Hypnotist-subject relationship, it’s potential without trust is limited. The trance can be deep but it will not be representative of the potential when trust is in place.

Ultimately, trust should be the goal of any interaction you have. It is less important that the Hypnotist trust the subject. Depending on the goal(s) of your relationship, a Hypnotist needs you to trust Her and not the other way around. That being said though, as a HypnoDomme, I like the trust fact to go both ways. I am more inclined to be creative with subjects that I trust, as well as more open with My Own experiences when we are talking.

So in the future, to let go and trance more effectively , focus instead on building trust rather than the trance itself. The trance will happen either way, but the extent of which will be determined by the trust factor.

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Weekly Hypnotic Task One

by Ambre Jadein Hypnosis1 Comment on Weekly Hypnotic Task One

I will be releasing a new weekly hypnotic task every Monday from today forward. These tasks will vary in how they are to presented to you, ie audio, video, written. Each will have a specific goal in mind, and depending on My mood I will share it with you.

These tasks will involve a sacrifice, your time, physical discomfort,etc. The weekly hypnotic task will cut into various parts of your existence. It is not about forcing you to “out” yourself but rather to find ways to express your devotion within more parts of your life than just when you have some free time.

Hypnotic Task One

your first task is simple. Not too taxing. I would like you to find five minutes, yes only five minutes, where you can be completely alone, and silent. I want you to set a timer, for five minutes. Nudity is recommended, though not absolutely necessary at this stage in your training. you will kneel, on the ground. This will likely cause some discomfort and eventually some aching. This is the sacrifice involved.

During your five minutes, I want you to empty your mind of everything. The silence and stillness of your mind is what I am after for this exercise. Breath through your abdomen. Expand and contract with every breathe and clear your mind.

This will be difficult. The clearing of your mind. Five minutes is not a long time and if you can do more, I encourage you to do so. Five minutes is the minimum. This will be done daily for a week. you will find your moment and while it will not be focused on Me, you will get your mind ready for potential programming by Me.

Alternative: For those of you who are not capable of kneeling for five minutes. If you can, work toward kneeling but should that not be possible sit on the floor crossed legged or lay on your back. This should be done on the floor. If there are medical conditions that prevent you from being on the floor, your bed is an acceptable alternative. Key word here being medical conditions!

I would love to hear how this week progresses for you.

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Emotional Fluctuations

by Ambre Jadein Hypnosis, Life Coaching1 Comment on Emotional Fluctuations

Having just come out of a rather turbulent emotional roller-coaster, and its effects still clear in My mind, I decide to go over some of the emotional fluctuations that can potentially occur when you submit to erotic hypnosis. Like anything, there are various levels of submission and you might find that you are not as emotionally impacted as others. For this post, I am making a distinction between submission for a session and submission to a Goddess or Domme. Both are extremely powerful and both have different effects.

Emotional fluctuations can vary from one person to the next, and one session to the next. Emotional fluctuations can be different depending on who you are submitting to, or the nature of the sessions. We live in a world where emotional fluctuations are generally seen as negative. I rarely, if ever, see an emotional response as a negative, including My Own emotions. I could go on about emotions forever, but right now we are focusing on the emotional fluctuations that can happen during erotic hypnosis sessions. This list is by no means, complete. There are an almost infinite number of possible emotional responses. The intensity can vary from person to person, experience to experience, day to day.

Top Five聽Emotional Fluctuations During Erotic Hypnosis

  1. Lust to Love
  2. Desire to Resentment
  3. Love to Devotion
  4. submission to slavery
  5. Fear to Eroticism

1. Lust to Love:

Erotic hypnosis almost by its very nature is about lust. Sexual energy is high. Lust for both the experience and the Domme. Over time (sometimes through a single session) that lust evolves to love. True love? Not likely but love none the less. Where once you may have objectified your Goddess, it is replaced by a new found respect and care for Her on a deeper level than you were expecting. On a side note, this emotional fluctuation can occur even before a session. This is easily the most common fluctuation. I always find it interesting to watch this occur between subject and HypnoDomme. Even when I am not involved and watching from the outside.

This is one of the emotional fluctuations that rarely revert back. Chances are you will always love Her. It may lessen in intensity, or you may come to see it as “two ships passing in the night” but the love will always be there in some form or another.

2. Desire to Resentment:

I聽struggled with the decision to add this emotional fluctuation. It is rather negative but with the right Domme, such emotional changes will be perceived before they become an issue or She will use this change to plant the seeds for further transformation. There are moments when a submissive may find themselves resenting their Goddess. Not for something She has said or done, but rather the level of control She has over their existence. I see this as a natural progression to devotion. Resentment shows that there is an understanding as to how intense the HypnoDomme-subject relationship can actually be. Do not feel discouraged either as the subject or the Domme when this fluctuation occurs.

This is an example of an emotional fluctuation that must be an evolution of the relationship. It ends in one of two ways. 1) The resentment is dispelled as the subject accepts the control She has over them. 2) The relationship ends. This is by no means a reflection of the Hypnotist’s skill but rather a manifestation of how far the subject was willing to let the relationship go. It could be that the subject was not yet at the point in their life where this intensity was an acceptable part of their life.

3. Love to Devotion:

This transformation is My favourite. This is when a subject transcends love. Devotion is a different, deeper level of love. If you have read My Domme as a Leader piece, you may聽understand more of what I mean. This is when other emotional responses start to dissipate. The biggest one I notice, is jealousy. Can you really be devoted to someone if you spend more time being jealous than devoted? No, you can’t. This is where you start to see yourself as an extension of your Goddess and Her experiences. When Her happiness is truly your happiness. Many claim to be at this juncture in their relationships but they are still a little shy of the truest expression of devotion, more on that another time.

4. submissive to slave:

One of the more subtle of the emotional fluctuations, a transformation from submissive to slave, at least as per My definition. Not everyone will agree that this is an emotional change but rather a change in lifestyle choice. While I agree to a certain extent, there are emotions that are present in a submissive that are not part of the slave interaction and vise versa. A slave is a complete loss of the self, you belong, you are owned. There are a multitude of emotional transitions there. Those who have witnessed this change will know what I mean.

5. Fear to Eroticism:

I have spent quite some time describing this emotional fluctuation, so I won’t get too much into it. But as you can imagine this is an intense emotional fluctuation that is undervalued.

There are many more emotional fluctuations, I am sure you have experienced some that are not mentioned here. Share in the comments or privately.

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