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Top Trance

So I don’t think I have ever really spoken about or even mentioned top trance on this site. It is the state a top or Hypnotist can enter while performing erotic hypnosis. This is often referred to as top space in more classical BDSM scenes.

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So what is Top Trance?

When a subject enters trance it is obvious. There is dissociation, absorption, and suggestion. In top trance it is a little different. There are elements of all three however it is more controlled and kept in check. The strongest element in top trance, for me anyone, is always suggestion. Even as the Tist you enter a state of suggestibility. Since you are driving the scene, and creating the intention it is not the same suggestibility as the subject. More of a state of extreme openness.

Openness and empathy reign in this state. There are moments when my partner’s heart beats in sync with mine. A touch on their skin is felt across my own body. It is very intense.

Is there always a top trance?

Essentially no. The same way there is not always a top space when you are playing. Or sub space for that matter. There is an element of trust and repetition that increases the likelihood of experiencing a more joint trance. It is not something I find myself experiencing in a more professional setting, though it has happened. It is something that happens more when I am with a partner. And we have been playing with erotic hypnosis for a minute. Opening yourself up is always easier with someone you know. Even in a professional setting. There are many subjects who have been with me for close to a decade and they experience trance with me very differently than when they first started!

What does trance feel like for you?

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November 8, 2024
What Makes a Good Hypnosis Negotiation?
A good hypnosis negotiation is often lacking in online, and transactional experiences. Negotiation in transactional sexuality is often thought to be about pricing. It is not. In fact, arguing with pricing will often cause blocking or an increase in rate. A discussion for another time. Negotiation is such an important part of a genuine, authentic beautiful hypnotic experience, and should not be skipped.

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I cannot overstate the importance of a good erotic hypnosis negotiation. It sets up expectations for the play but more than that, it established trust and a shared connection. It allows you to determine what will and will not happen during your erotic hypnosis experience. Hypnosis is a state of compromised consent, so we need to full negotiate any and all scenes, especially when the dynamic is new. This is applicable to all sessions, paid, online, in person… All of it.

What do you need to share for a Hypnosis Negotiation?

As your dynamic evolves more information about your partner will be shared, experiences will go deeper and so many opportunities to negotiate and change and play with things. This contrasts with your first experience with someone. I know, “you can do what you want with me?” This is NOT HELPFUL. Pick something you want or decide with your Tist. So what does your partner need to know for a good negotiation?
- What are your limits
- What are your expectations
- Do you have specific induction needs
- Do you have any spectrum like behaviours (this can change the way you get to trance sometimes)
- Do you have aftercare needs?
- How much time do we have?
- Can I touch you?
- Can you touch me?
Am I missing any? I know there are a few that I have not listed here. Share with me your go to negotiation questions pre-hypnosis session.

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November 3, 2024
Creating Connections with Erotic Hypnosis

Creating connections within a dynamic is not an alien concept when it comes to BDSM. There are so many different ways to create lasting, intense connections among people. Erotic hypnosis creates something truly unique between partners.

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So many plays have different ways of creating connections. Each unique and each experience is unique. Each dynamic is unique. I think we forget sometime that every experience has so many different variable, but I am getting distracted from my initial point. Different plays create a different type of connection. There are a lot of different plays I enjoy. But there is definitely something special about erotic hypnosis where connections are concerned.

What Does It Feel Like?

Creating connections with erotic hypnosis almost feels like giving a piece of your soul to another. This is not necessarily valid for transactional sexuality or through files. I am talking about trusted, established, safe(r) partners being a piece of you and you being a piece of them. Sometimes I have thoughts that do not belong to me, feelings that run through my body, these are not mine. They belong to my partner. The same happens to them.

I am never the subject, always the Tist and still, there is a connection. There is a piece of me that traded places with them while we played. I cannot think of another play as apt at creating connects save perhaps rope. There is an intimacy that cannot be replicated. As part of a BDSM dynamic, a portion of your Femdom experience trading slivers of your soul seems like quite the connecting act.

Creating Connections with Everyone?

Is this because of my partners? Quite likely. There is a trust and vulnerability that can only come from time together as your genuine, authentic self. Hiding is not possible when you are playing in each others thoughts. There is an openness that exists in very few other places. Erotic hypnosis offers so much to me and still more and more and more being discovered as time passes.

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November 2, 2024
Why I Love Erotic Hypnosis

I am sure I have posted about why I love erotic hypnosis at some point in the past. However it feels like my first Hyp-November post should revolve around why I love it so much. I mean, can you blame me? Hypnosis is such a powerful tool in my tool belt.

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Reasons to love erotic hypnosis:

Let’s start with how it satisfies my main fetish, my biggest turn on, the exchange of power. Power exchange is not absolutely necessary during hypnosis play, but it is for me, usually. It is one things to control someone’s body but to control their mind… their thoughts… their desires…

I love the versatility of erotic hypnosis. Is it the play? Is it added to the play? Are you intensifying things, nullifying others? so many different ways to just play.

There are so many specific reasons I love erotic hypnosis. Experiences that can only be experienced once, are able to be felt and sensed and toyed with multiple times in multiple ways in multiple dynamics. It is so special like that.

Want to feel what it is liked to get your orgasm ripped out of your body just before it happens, not ruining it but completely removing it from existence? With erotic hypnosis you can do that… I have done that. On many occasions.

But those reasons are only the play. there are many more reasons to love erotic hypnosis. There is an intimacy you create with a repeated partner. A shared experience. And with time, a shared consciousness. There is something about knowing the thought you put in their head is present and knowing that when you snap your fingers they will react… It is more beautiful than I could ever describe.

Which is why this is only part 1. I will be expanding on each other those sensations, each of those thoughts and sharing so many more reasons why more people should embrace erotic hypnosis.

À bientôt,

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November 1, 2024
Trance, Let’s Talk About It

It’s time for us to talk about trance. Erotic and other. Let’s start this off with a little recounting of my activities on Saturday. My usual Saturday activities were on hold for some health shit, all is well, don’t worry! So it left an opening on my Saturday. Wouldn’t you know it, there was going to be a workshop on erotic hypnosis at a local dungeon. I took this as a sign from the universe that I should attend, so I did. This was not like a deep dive into the ultimate tool that I have found hypnosis to be, but rather an introduction, 101 kind of course.

For those of you who don’t know, I love to revisit things. There is something magical about the basics. On occasion, we all get lost in the complexity and more hardcore representations of our kinks, hypnosis is no exception. I would even make an argument that it is easier to lose sight of hypnosis foundations. I will likely touch on this in a later post.

The workshop itself focused mainly on inducing trance. Nothing really beyond the letting go aspect. No suggestions, no fractionation, no NLP, no behaviour mods, nothing like that. After a presentation, we were given the opportunity to induce trance with our partners and other participants. As someone who really does not like having another person near my mind, I consequently and selfishly did not allow others induce trance on me. (I have some issues with control and I have some adverse reactions, stories for another time.) Ever the educator, I really wish I had allowed someone the opportunity. However, I know my current boundaries and am respecting them.

And Now, Where Does Trance Fit In?

Following this workshop, I spent a good amount of time thinking about the activities I perform daily. Looking at which ones are trance adjacent, if not trance themselves. I do a lot of things that can be seen as a form of trance. My morning routine is always the same. My evening routines do vary, regardless there are certain sequences of events that happen repeatedly. I practice martial arts, essentially performing the same series of movements over and over and over and over and over and over…. you get the idea. This is my trance, this is where I let go. Routine.

What aspects of your daily life involve trance? Have you ever stopped to think about it? In this sort of online domain of transactional sexuality we forget that not all experiences need to be sexual or bought. (Not that I am discouraging you from purchasing things, just making a statement of fact!) We have moments of trance regularly, throughout our day, usually completely unaware that we have entered this state of consciousness. Take a few moments and really think about… List the moments where you let go. It can be playing video games, listening to music, anything routine, anything really.

How Can We Harness This Daily Trancing?

I think there are many ways we can use our vanilla trance moments for darker, more nefarious purposes 😉 Using other techniques, we can bring in anything from simple to complex behavioural changes by harnessing these moments. An example, that’s what you really want right?

Let’s say you have a bedtime routine. The same hygiene routine, same procedure every time you prepare for slumber. Add a change to it. Add a new aspect to your routine. Change will happen faster as the process is already established. Every night, I want you stroking for me before bed. You have the loop of me telling you to stroke. Consequently, you play it in your headphones throughout nightly routine. After a while, you will hear the loop, without plaing it. Brushing your teeth will have my thoughts and words dancing in your mind. The power of daily, even vanilla trance provides amazing opportunities for behavioural changes, and modifications of all kinds

Imagine what an experienced Hypnotist could do with such things.

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February 12, 2023
Guided Meditation vs Erotic Hypnosis

Guided meditation is a passion of mine. I have been spending a good chunk of time these last few weeks writing new erotic hypnosis content, and it struck me. I would also love to create some Guided Meditation sessions as well. So I started and I have to say, the results are lovely! A few will be coming out shortly.

Isn’t Guided Meditation and Hypnosis the Same Thing?

In a nut shell, no. They are different. Both create an environment of relaxing. The way I see it, and I suppose, others can, maybe even will, argue with my views but fuck it, I am writing this piece… Guided Meditation is a journey, an adventure for the sake of self exploration and relaxation. Hypnosis can also be a journey, depending on the style, and fosters deep relaxation. Where it differs, erotic hypnosis has an ultimate goal. There is a behavioural change that the hypnotist creates or deepens throughout the session.

This is a wonderful thing. I, myself, delight in creating deeper, more responsive submission from my marrionettes. However, sometimes it is nice to just explore your sexual experiences without change.

Why Wouldn’t you Want Erotic Hypnosis?

Why would someone chose a guided mediation session over an erotic hypnosis session? The answer is fairly simple, at least to me. A guided meditation session will allow you to explore your own sexuality, your own sexual views, kinks, fetishes, etc. Whereas erotic hypnosis is telling you what and how to feel regarding specific sexual experiences. The wording makes it seem like erotic hypnosis is bad, it really is an amazing experience. The manipulation of it is incredibly sexy. That being said, sometimes we just want to relax, and if there is some sexual tension and sensation with that, all the better!

Best Practice:

Combine both erotic hypnosis and guided meditation to create a truly amazing experience. More time with my voice, a better understanding of your own submissive needs, feeling my control… What more could you possibly ask for?

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January 16, 2023
Healthy Living Tuesdays

It was recently asked “Why do you post about health, food, exercise… aren’t you a Dominatrix?” I suppose this is a fair question. The topics are write about tend to be incredibly varied and since amalgamating all my sites into one, my vast range of topics is clearly identifiable. So why do I write about healthy living? What does that have to do with D/s relationships?

Well, for some people nothing. For some, the two are not connected. My musings on well being look simply out of place when you contrast them with posts about Femdom and Fetishism. Posts about eating more broccoli are not likely bring me more clients. But posts about eating more broccoli, reminds people that eating more broccoli is important to me. Which means, if they truly want to serve or please me, eating more broccoli will become important to them!

In serving me, you are a reflection of my desires. You should strive to represent me, my passions, my lifestyle to the best of your abilities. This is important to remember. If someone is serving me, then I want them to showcase, to embrace a lifestyle that not only has me at its core but my work ethic, my morals… you get the idea.

Health and well-being are important aspects of my life. I have struggled with illness, surgery, weight gain, a loss of control over my health and over the past four years, I am taking control again. I am pushing myself to better my quality of life. You shoudl do the same. Not only because you would benefit from it, but also because I want you to.

I want my slaves, subs, subjects to want to embrace a similar lifestyle. To endeavour to better themselves both physically and mentally. To embrace Femdom and through it gain confidence, self esteem and all those wonderful empowering things.

Healthy living makes for healthy slaving… So yes, I will always post healthy living articles and no they will not likely be wank fodder, you can handle it 😉

Ambre Jade

September 27, 2016
Fitness Testing, I have to do it so should you
So my karate people, read individuals who are far more advanced than myself, have decided that all of us within the Yudansha (1st degree black belt and above) should perform various fitness exercises and compare our results. While this sort of fitness testing makes sense to me, I do have some anxiety related to it. Many of the exercises are not one that I excel at. Most are body weight exercises, various calisthenics and a metric metric mile run. Running is not, and has never been my thing. I have been trying to add running to my weekly routine, I am finding it very difficult to find the time and the energy to be honest. I do my martial arts training daily. As well as classes 4 days a week and a fighting fit class. Combine this with working and parenting, my time is really quite limited.

If I want to do well in this fitness testing, I better start making it a higher priority. We have not been given a date for the actual testing yet, so I figure start now, get you guys involved. Motivation for both myself and you to move some more. So here are the exercises (hopefully not breaking some BS secret society rule):
1. Metric mile run – TIME
2. Knuckle push ups (arms close to the body, elbows behind hand, to 90 degrees) – TO FAILURE (proper technique for each one)
3. Wide push ups (arms farther from the body, about chest, fingers pointing away from the body) – TO FAILURE
4. Triangle – Diamond push ups (hands at the xiphoid process ish, index fingers and thumbs touching to create a diamond / triangle) – TO FAILURE
5. Plank (standard on elbows plank) – TIME
6. Side plank (hand that is not taking the body weight to be in the air) X 2 – TIME
7. Lunges (walking motion with twenty pound weights in each hand) – TO FAILURE
8. Wall sit (against a wall, sit with legs at a 90 degree angle) – TIME
9. Sit ups (hands extended forward, to reach knees) – 60 SECONDS
10. Curl ups (hand on opposite shoulder, crossed, elbows to knees) – 60 SECONDS
11. Pull ups (hands about should width apart, palms out) – TO FAILURE
Depending on the number you perform, age, and gender, you will be assigned a numerical value for each exercise.

I would like to do something similar with those trying to keep up with me on My Fitness Pal and my healthy living boys. Consider this an assignment! This week you will test each one of those exercises and give me the results. You can do one or two a day, they don’t have to be all at the same time. Included in your results, I would like age and gender.

I will share my results as well!

À bientôt,

Ambre Jade

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September 13, 2016
Budgeting For Findom Slaves, Domme Advice
Over the last few weeks, there have been three incidents in which I create a budget for a Findom slave. Some people seem to believe that budgeting for findom slaves takes away some of the fun, that by capping what you can give, or rather what you should give takes away from the experience. From a personal standpoint, I have never found it so. I have always enjoyed creating budgets, pinching pennies, finding creative solutions, things like that. I have primarily created such plans for those who worship me, but on a few occasions there have been requests from individuals (slaves) who serve another.

Seeking Advice

These slaves, though for me, I look upon them as individuals seeing as they serve another, tend to be looking for an impartial look at their contributions to their Goddess’ lifestyle without living out of a cardboard box. As sexy as the fantasy of breaking financially, the reality is not so pleasant. Sure, an accountant would be best but do you desire admitting to your accountant that this is your fetish? Do you want to have to explain the who, what, where, when, why s of your financial domination fetish? Finding someone who both understands your fetish and is excellent with numbers would be a perfect compromise. You could also speak with your Goddess, but not everyone wants to admit there are limitations on their spending or it is just not something that is part of their findom experience. Also, let’s be honest, Findoms (and there are many, many exceptions to this prejudice) are not very well known for their benevolence. Sometimes you need an outside voice that understands and is willing to help.

Budgeting for Findom slaves that Serve Me

An outside voice is not the motivation when you serve me. I am the only voice. The motivation comes from a desire to give more, not just money but also more information. The creation of a budget requires a large amount of information to the shared with me. I have an understanding of how you spend and what you spend it on. I can see and judge your priorities. This sharing of information, under the right conditions can be incredibly erotic. Information is power and knowing your financial situation is more information for me 🙂

I want Ambre Jade to help me with my Findom budget!

Naturally you can see how budgeting for Findom slaves would be beneficial to myself and to you, as the slave. How do you make that a reality? There are a few choices:
- Call my Lifestyle Line on Niteflirt, I will get all the information I need from you and subsequently send you a delightful spreadsheet
- Call my toll free (mention it is for budgeting, it is cheaper than hypnosis)
- Email me AmbientAmbre@gmail.com and enclose a 50$ tribute via giftrocket.
Be on the look out for more budget tips, including how to make more money for your Goddess.

Have fun with your budget planning!

À bientôt,

Ambre Jade

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September 12, 2016
30 Day Chastity Challenge Finally Together

I hinted at this with My last post. More fun and excitement on the chastity front from Me 🙂 I have created what I feel is something rather unique. A 30 Day Challenge that brings together chastity and teasing. I wanted to create something unique, something a bit more fun that your standard just don’t cum for 30 Days challenge! Some that would tease you and tantalize and bring you to the edge just about every day of this challenge. I wanted to exercise My creativity while giving you the opportunity to feel My distinct influence running over you.
Now, I get that some of you will see 30 Days as a long challenge. Something daunting and potentially unattainable. Here’s the thing, you can do it. you can successful avoid orgasm for 30 days for Me. It is a sacrifice you are making for Me. It might be the hardest sacrifice you have faced in a long time, but it will be both pleasurable and memorable. It will test you, it will fuck with you. It will play with your senses… I am so excited for this, you have no idea!

I created an audio introduction to My 30 Day Chastity Challenge for you. This will give you an idea of the tone and My style of teasing for the next 30 Days!

How Does the 30 Day Chastity Challenge Work?

Right now, I am mainly pushing the challenge through My Femdom Niteflirt. It is available through paid mail, if you are not familiar with the system, you can find all kinds of information on their site. Each mail will contain the instructions (audio and brief outline through type) for that day as well as a link, button, for the following day as well as a cum tax should you fuck up, which you won’t.

you can also email Me for other ways you can participate outside of Niteflirt. you will receive an email the night before, so that you wake to your instructions in your inbox! Lucky you!

Enjoy this challenge, it is the first of many to come!

À bientôt,

Maîtresse Ambre Jade

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January 15, 2016