Budgeting For Findom Slaves, Domme Advice

Over the last few weeks, there have been three incidents in which I create a budget for a Findom slave. Some people seem to believe that budgeting for findom slaves takes away some of the fun, that by capping what you can give, or rather what you should give takes away from the experience. From a personal standpoint, I have never found it so. I have always enjoyed creating budgets, pinching pennies, finding creative solutions, things like that. I have primarily created such plans for those who worship me, but on a few occasions there have been requests from individuals (slaves) who serve another.

Seeking Advice

Budgeting for Findom slavesThese slaves, though for me, I look upon them as individuals seeing as they serve another, tend to be looking for an impartial look at their contributions to their Goddess’ lifestyle without living out of a cardboard box. As sexy as the fantasy of breaking financially, the reality is not so pleasant. Sure, an accountant would be best but do you desire admitting to your accountant that this is your fetish? Do you want to have to explain the who, what, where, when, why s of your financial domination fetish? Finding someone who both understands your fetish and is excellent with numbers would be a perfect compromise. You could also speak with your Goddess, but not everyone wants to admit there are limitations on their spending or it is just not something that is part of their findom experience. Also, let’s be honest, Findoms (and there are many, many exceptions to this prejudice) are not very well known for their benevolence. Sometimes you need an outside voice that understands and is willing to help.

Budgeting for Findom slaves that Serve Me

An outside voice is not the motivation when you serve me. I am the only voice. The motivation comes from a desire to give more, not just money but also more information. The creation of a budget requires a large amount of information to the shared with me. I have an understanding of how you spend and what you spend it on. I can see and judge your priorities. This sharing of information, under the right conditions can be incredibly erotic. Information is power and knowing your financial situation is more information for me 🙂

I want Ambre Jade to help me with my Findom budget!

Naturally you can see how budgeting for Findom slaves would be beneficial to myself and to you, as the slave. How do you make that a reality? There are a few choices:

  • Call my Lifestyle Line on Niteflirt, I will get all the information I need from you and subsequently send you a delightful spreadsheet
  • Call my toll free (mention it is for budgeting, it is cheaper than hypnosis)
  • Email me AmbientAmbre@gmail.com and enclose a 50$ tribute via giftrocket.

Be on the look out for more budget tips, including how to make more money for your Goddess.

Have fun with your budget planning!

À bientôt,

Ambre Jade

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September Healthy Living Goals

This is the first time I am bringing my healthy living goals to my Femdom blog. My hope is that by combining September Healthy Living goals with my other blogs, I can encourage more people to embrace a healthier lifestyle is tandem with their Femdom lifestyle.

This is not the first time I have writing my monthly goals down. This is something I generally do privately, or on my healthy living blog. I would like everything to from now on be available in a single space where people can read about my goals and maybe add some of their own.

Like with every month, karate is a focus. I have classes a minimum of 4 times a week (some spent teaching rather than training). So I do not really feel the need to make monthly goals that have to do with my training. I want to add something different to the mix.

Over the past several months, I have neglected my food diary on My Fitness Pal. This was partially done on purpose as I was training for my black belt, and really ate when I was hungry and worried very little about calorie consumption. Now that the dynamic of my training has changed, it is time to return to daily food logging.

Goal 1: Food Logging for the Entire Month

Perhaps not as carefully as I have in the past, ie weighing my food, but still a daily record to keep me accountable.

My next goal is cardio related, I am not a good runner. Never have been, likely never will be BUT I would like to at least have the ability to run a 5k without wanting to die in the process.

Goal 2: Running a Little, a few days a week

My cardio is actually not that bad where other activities are involved. I bike to and from karate classes, about 6.5 km each way. I can train with weapons for hours at a time. Running seems to be my holy grail. It always feels so close and yet I can never find it. Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays will be my running days, preferably in the mornings.

2 September Healthy Living goals, they may seem simple enough but with all the other stuff I do, they could easily prove to be a challenge.

What are your healthy living goals for September? What would you like to accomplish? September is the perfect month for change, 30 days and the beginnings of a season change… I always find it to be a very productive month.

À bientôt,

Ambre Jade

 

30 Day Chastity Challenge (NF exclusive)

Chastity Challenge

Give up orgasms for 30 days. That doesn’t mean you don’t get to feel incredible pleasure as well as the feelings of submitting to me every day. This is a unique take on a 30 Day Chastity Challenge. Each day is a new challenge, not merely “no touching.” So much fun to create. Listen to the introduction for FREE!

Length: varies, between 2 and 5 minutes depending on the day

Layering: None

Background: None

Headphones: Not necessary

Format: mp3

Cost: 2.00$/day

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Introduction:

Truth or Dare

TorD

Want to play a game with Me? A truth or dare game! The rules are simple. Each number is randomly assigned either a truth or a dare. It is an audio file of Me explaining your task. They range from simple, basic confessions or tasks to some light humiliation, perhaps a little pain but not overly so. All tasks are gender neutral, so you girls can easily play too 🙂

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Play on Niteflirt:

Chastity Tease Day 1

ChasteTease1

This is your first day in chastity for me. I will tease you, I will direct you and I will make sure it is clear who is in charge.

Length: 18 minutes

Layering: None

Background Music: None

Headphones: Unnecessary

Format: mp3

Cost: 15.00$

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Banana Crushing

BananaCrush

Teasing, toying, crushing a banana with my powerful feet.

Length: 3m25s

Audio: Original audio with some clean up. Hear the sticky results of my powerful feet.

Quality: 1080p

Format: mp4

Cost: 7.50$

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Kiwi Crushing

KiwiCrushing

Teasing, toying, crushing a kiwi with my powerful feet.

Length: 3m55s

Audio: Original audio with some clean up. Hear the sticky results of my powerful feet.

Quality: 1080p

Format: mp4

Cost: 10.00$

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Grape Crushing

GrapeCrushing

My lovely feet teasing and crushing powerless grapes.

Length: 6m45s

Audio: Sound during the recording, includes noises of cars going by and other distractions in order to preserve the popping sound of the grapes

Quality: 1080p

Format: mp4

Cost: 10.00$

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Creamy Legs

CreamyLegs

A short video of cream running down my thighs to my toes.

Length: 45s

Audio: NONE

Quality: 1080p

Format: mp4

Cost: 5.00$

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