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Fetish of the Month: My Voluptuous Ass

October 3, 2016 by Ambre Jadein Fetish

New Month, New fetish. This month the focus will be my voluptuous ass! The fetish of the month was on hold for a little bit while I got my new sites all organized, and while there are still improvements to be made, I see no reason to deny you this month’s fetish. Especially when it is such a delightful fetish.

The Fetish of the Month will be my voluptuous bottom. Here is what you can expect in the coming weeks:

Ass centric pic sets, covered in a variety of delicious undies
Teasing videos, something to get very excited about
Femdom Audio releases, focused on my ass
Niteflirt Games
And more…

I am quite excited for this FotM and you should be too. My ass has always been one of my best attributes. This is an opportunity for you to see why! To understand why so many are entranced by such gorgeous, round, strong globes of perfection.

I do so love to show off my ass. It makes people so weak so easily. Like they are hypnotised by the sway of my hips as I walk. Compelled to offer themselves and their services to me. It is hard to resist! You’ll understand why before the end of the Fetish of the Month! You’ll feel that compulsion, that need to reach out, so desperate to touch.

The weekly release day for new material is still up for debate (yes, I debate with myself). It will likely be Thursday for this first week and Tuesdays for the remainder of the month! Content will be released at a discounted price, which will go up at the start of November. So grab them as they come out. My fetish of the month line on Niteflirt is available at a discount as well. Please make sure the topic of conversation is in fact MY ASS or I will hang up on you and have you call one of my other lines.

Fetish of the Month Topics:

Ass worship
Face sitting
Ass licking
JOI, with my ass as your motivation
More, get creative 😉

So enjoy the delights I am offering you in October! I know I am enjoying their creation.

À bientôt,

Ambre Jade

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Fetish Fun over on Doctrine

June 6, 2016 by Ambre Jadein Fetish

As you may or may not have notice, there is a substantial amount of fetish fun going on over on My Femdom website. I have started a Fetish of the Month event. An event where every month is devoted to a specific fetish and a variety of ways this manifests.

I will not be doing the same fetish fun with My hypnosis focus. There will be some overlap depending on the fetish, but My focus here is strictly erotic hypnosis. I do however want you aware, as it will include pic sets and videos of your Goddess. These are important for you to have for proper worship to your Goddess.

À bientôt,

Goddess Ambre Jade

Swingers and Fetishists

December 10, 2015 by Ambre Jadein Domme Thought, Femdom, Fetish

For the purposes of this article, I am using Fetishist and practitioners of BDSM interchangeably. This is not always the case but in this instance it applies to the BDSM community and fetishist feels like a better word than Domme, sub, Dom, slave, puppy, Owner, Mistress, ... the list goes on. Thus fetishist as the term used here.

It’s interesting. There seems to have always been a certain animosity between swingers and fetishists. Even with a rather significant overlap in behaviours. I was at the swingers’ baths the other night and as usually was having a wonderful time. While I do not see myself as a swinger, it is not really something I participate in, I always enjoy being there. I blame the water 😉 A girlfriend and I were talking about the quasi feud that there seems to be between the two cultures. My friend has been into BDSM longer than I have, and though not currently part of the scene, she was for a long time.

What is it about these two cultures that causes the friction? Swingers and fetishists have a lot in common. Both are seen as deviant behaviour, counter culture. They have their own clubs and gatherings. They have their own rules and behavioural expectations. What is it that keeps them apart?

To figure this out, I went back in time to my first encounter with the notions of swingers and fetishists. The BDSM community is BIG on consent, and if they are not, stay away, but a discussion for another time. Consent is a massive part of the BDSM lifestyle. Why? Because you are electing to either cause or receive pain. This is one of the few places where consent is utilized properly. Where as swingers, without the aspect of pain see consent as a given. Not necessarily a given but they tend to see consent in a way that is comparable to the way the rest of society sees it. It is assumed consent is there.

While I do not feel that my experiences within the swinger baths showed a violation of consent, or that anyone was indulging in something that went beyond what was consensual, there were also no discussions about it. No active informed consent, no consent discussions, no debating or negotiating. The consent was assumed.

Maybe this is key to why the two communities seem at odds. I have to admit, coming from the background I do, my ideals, my views, the lack of these consent discussions were a little shocking. More so when you take into account the consuming of alcohol. What can I say, different strokes. The swinger culture has a sense of freedom that I can’t help but covet. Is it for me? Absolutely not. Could it be in the future? Who knows, sexuality is fluid. The BDSM community has structure, roles, rules and regulations, consent. For now, my sexuality swings (pun totally intended) more toward BDSM and likely always will.

À bientôt,

Ambre Jade

Fear and Desire

February 11, 2015 by Ambre Jadein Femdom, Fetish

In My experience, fear and desire go hand in hand. What an individual fears is on many occasions something they desire. And vice versa. As you may have noticed this week I am focusing on fear, as I think it is an important part of your experience with a Domme. Fear plays a massive part on how we react to stimuli, how we perceive danger vs pleasure. So why would it not play a huge part in our desires? Our desires, our deep desires, the ones we do not like to talk about, often come from a place of fear. Fear and desire go together. They create a delicious ebb and flow between emotions, reactions and submission.

Fear and Desire in Fantasy Life

In our fantasies, in our imaginations we have the ability to create any scenario and the fear we feel, is less “real” making it safe to explore without worrying about the consequences. Think about it for a moment. If you reflect enough, find one of those fantasies you “want” to live out but haven’t yet, is fear not the biggest reason you have not lived it out? And would it not also be true to say that fear, the fear within the experience is what adds the spice to the fantasy? Fear and desire, fear and fantasy, fear plays a big role.

A huge fantasy that comes up when I work with someone, probably the most popular, is the idea of total Domination over that person’s life. Every action, every desire, every breath needs permission from Me. The desire for this ultimate submission is strong for many submissive people. But the fear of a total lack of control makes them hesitant. The fear of the experience, the fear of not knowing what your Dominant will request of you, is a HUGE part of the desire. Two different fears, two different ways they can manifest.

Best Representation of Fear and Desire Working Together

There are many fantasies and scenarios that show the playful interaction between fear and desire. The best representation, rather the easiest to see the flow between fear and desire is blackmail. Blackmail is a massive fetish. It represents a good portion of My sessions, not all but My having an interrogation fetish means it is easy to add to sessions, but I digress. Blackmail is based on the fear of getting caught. The heart racing, autonomic response to fear heightens the desire, makes the experiences that much more pleasurable. Fear in this instance is a tool.

What fear do you have that goes with your desire? Where does fear and desire work for you?

À bientôt,

Maîtresse Ambre Jade

Some Thoughts on FemDom Name Calling

January 21, 2015 by Ambre Jadein Femdom, Fetish, Sessions2 Comments

I am not a huge fan of name calling. Well, that’s an exaggeration. There are certain terms and expressions I LOVE and use on a fairly regular basis. I do have many terms I hate to use and hate to say. When the terms come up organically, I have no issues. The rhythm is not broken and things just flow nicely. It is not that I have a problem with naughty words or aggressive behaviour. Believe Me, I have no qualms being a bitchy Cunt! There are just some terms that are a seemingly prominent part of Femdom name calling. To each Their own, of course, and I do not criticize anyone for using the terms I dislike. I just have trouble forcing them from between My tasty lips.

Why do I hate these Femdom name calling terms? And what terms get under My skin.

paypig: I cannot even begin to explain how much I hate this term and how it is comes up soooo often within the Findom community. I get it “OINK OINK OINK” and all that. But why this particular term? I have tried, I really have to love this Femdom name calling term. It is hugely popular. It is great business but fuck, I just cannot get down with it. I have said piggy before. It came out nicely as My guy was snorting at the time. I wish I could give you a more precise reason as to why it irks Me so much. I really do not know. Perhaps it is a combination of its overuse and the idea that the relationship is so completely one dimension. I am not saying it is one dimensional, it just seems that way whenever I read it.

faggot: I have said it before and will likely say it again but only when it flows well. My aversion to this particular Femdom name calling term is easier to put into words than paypig. This word just feeds homophobia and the idea that being gay is an insult. It isn’t. It is a state of being.

stupid: Oh My Fucking Gods do I hate this word!!! As a way to describe a specific behaviour, I have no problems using it. “Well fuck, that was stupid!” But as a word to describe an individual, especially an individual who has chosen to spend their time with Me, NO, NEVER. When you make the decision to worship Me, to spend on Me, to talk with Me, you are making a brilliant choice! This Femdom name calling word does not apply. you are not stupid. By calling Me, you have proven that you are not stupid.

sissy: This Femdom name calling term is up there with paypig in that I really want to like it. And the term does apply in many many cases. It does come up naturally, and in those instances I will use it. But I hate Myself afterwards, every single time. It reminds Me is school yard bullying bullshit. Which could easily be why some people enjoy that particular term. There is also the undertones and implications that being feminized makes you inferior. If anything to Me, feminization brings you up the ladder 🙂

Are there Femdom Name Calling Terms you dislike? Do you like some of the ones on My list?

À bientôt,

Maîtresse Ambre Jade

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A Special Chaste Anniversary

October 17, 2014 by Ambre Jadein Femdom, Fetish, Sessions2 Comments

A year in chastity! Being chaste long term is not for everyone. In fact, off the top of My head, I can only think of a handful of people that could actually make such a commitment to chastity! It is not an easy experience. And My puppy did make a couple of mistakes in the last three years. But over the last year, I have been incredibly impressed with his devotion! he did however have one orgasm through this year. A single release, that was not sanctioned by Me.

This release, this cock up in his year long chaste devotion was not the result of a purposeful orgasm and occurred while he was sleeping. Since it was through no fault of his own, I have decided to exclude it! he paid Me a hefty sum in his quest for forgiveness. My decision to exclude this dreaming, sleeping orgasm was a difficult conclusion to come to. On the one hand, he fucking came, without permission. On the other, he was in a state of sleep and he could not physically stop this orgasm. The sleeping orgasm was not experienced as a pleasure, rather he woke up to a wet bed. I am sure he loves Me sharing these details LOL!

The lack of pleasure was the main component, the main factor in My decision to keep his chaste record clear. his honesty about the experience, his willingness to confess this sin to Me also meant that I was willing to forgive his transgression. There are certain things we as human beings can control. When the pent up need for release becomes a biological need as opposed to a desire for pleasure, there is a need for milking. Since My puppy and I do not live together and live a significant distance from one another, the milking option was not available to us. So the body found a way.

A lesson was learned for both of us. Being chaste, especially for the long term is a massive commitment on both the key holder and the chaste individual. For males, the body needs a certain release but that does not automatically mean there will be pleasure surrounding it. My puppy did not feel the potential pleasure of that orgasm. Had he been in a state where he was awake and completely conscious, it could have been dealt with in a different way. A milking would have made a difference, iMo. But hindsight is 20/20.

Before you embark on a long term chaste agreement, make sure you are ready to embrace every aspect of it. Short term chastity is a pleasure as well. I consider the two entirely different. More on that later.

À bientôt,

Maîtresse Ambre Jade

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October #FOTM: SpH

October 1, 2014 by Ambre Jadein Femdom, Fetish

October is going to be a fun ass month!!! sph, small penis humiliation is the #FOTM for us at the Femdom Devotionals forum! So much fun. I have talked about both the #FOTM and Our forum before so I will not get into that but sph 😀 So fun!

I love this fetish! The funniest part about sph when I am on one on one sessions with people is that about 75% of the people I talk to feel the need to tell Me that in reality it isn’t as small as they claim during the session. What a hilarious response! I mean, cher, doesn’t matter how big or small you are, we will not be fucking! Do you do that? Do you feel the need to express your actual size? Maybe it is a component of the aftercare necessary on the part of the sub. I still find it amusing!

So what can you look forward to this month from Myself, Empress Vox Siren and Princess Indigo this month? SO many things!!! We haven’t completely figured out Our schedule but let Me tell you, the shit We have come up with for you is fucking golden! Brutal but erotic as fuck! you weaklings will have no idea what has hit you until it is too late!

But What is SpH?

Small penis Humiliation is usual a verbal assault on your manhood or rather lack there of! Everyone has a different way of approaching it, a different way it manifests in Their sessions. One of My favourite things to do is force you to find an instrument of measure, a ruler, a penis, something where size comparison is obvious and force you to voice what a teenie tiny weenie you have! It’s fucking delicious when you realise you are completely ill equipped when it comes to satisfying Me in a sexual way. All you can offer is your humiliation for My entertainment! My being entertained is important.

Are you the owner of a teenie weenie? Is it so small you have never felt anything while fucking another person? Tell Me about it! And pay your teenie weenie tax!

Teenie Weenie Tax:

À bientôt,

Maîtresse Ambre Jade

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How to Spank Over the Phone

September 23, 2014 by Ambre Jadein Femdom, Fetish, Sessions

September’s #FOTM wrapping up and I finally get around to talking about how to Spank over the Phone! Well I talk a little about it 🙂 I randomly decided to give you the luxury of hearing My voice as I am not really in the mood to write! So enjoy the gift of listening to Me!

Spanking #FOTM

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Pick a player, they are both the same, depending on your browser you might to pick one of the other. Also you can download it clicking the downward arrow beside the first!

À bientôt,

Maîtresse Ambre Jade

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PS Yes, I could have edited things out but I didn’t feel like it. My puppy was making Me laugh while I was recording!

Fun Ignore Phone Play

September 14, 2014 by Ambre Jadein Femdom, Fetish, Sessions

I finished such a fun call. My ignore phone line is so fun. Earlier tonight a Girlfriend of Mine and I were hanging out at My place. We needed some disconnect time. She is a Domme as well though not professionally, anyway, She was over. We decided like kick it old school, play some Mario 3. Oh yeah, you read that correctly. We were hanging out at My place, two sexy, fine ass Women, slipping wine and playing games from Our childhood. I turned My lines on, She knows what I do and supports it. Depending on the call She would either leave the room until I was done or partake.

The perfect line rings, My ignore phone line. Oh Goddess did We have so much fun. We were ignoring him of course, hearing his excitement in the background but Our attention was completely focus on the task at hand, beating that bastard icy, slippery Mario level. Finally made that level My bitch and as I did, that boy on the other end of the line (I have no idea what his name is, if he even has one) got so excited he couldn’t help but blow! you boys are so silly! Jerking to Mario video games. I am still fucking laughing! Such a delightful evening. Wine, company, Mario and money… an intoxicating combination.

Now you want some ignore phone play?

Well it is easy to set up. On Niteflirt it is easy. I have a line devoted to ignoring you on the phone. If you are calling My toll free number there is an extra step you need to add, it’s simple. Just an email, stating you will be calling and that you are looking to be ignored. I know it kind of feels like the spontaneity is missing but have no fear. An email with the number you will be calling from and a time frame (even something like “calling in ten” is sufficient). So much fun.

Time to be ignored bitches,

Maîtresse Ambre Jade

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An extra note, My ignore line is usually only available when I am out or doing something fun. Ignoring you while I am blogging or writing bores Me. I like to add a little excitement to it for Me. Makes it more entertaining 😉

Electro Play: Keep it current

September 9, 2014 by Ambre Jadein Femdom, Fetish, Sessions

It’s interesting what a skilled pair of hands, some tape and the right Domme can accomplish. Electro play what a pleasure. I was having a bad day, yeah, it happens to the best of Us. My little boy john got to feel the full effect of an unhappy Ambre Jade. In My defense he built the fucking thing. I just got to play. Now before you dumb asses try building something similar make sure you have the knowledge.

What is Electro Play?

I suppose I should be more clear as to its purpose. As you can see from the multitude of images I have included, there are two rings, one placed at the base and one toward the tip. Each band or ring is attached to a wire which releases electrical stimulation from a battery (there is also a transformer so he was being safe). The voltage and number of pulses were determine by Me. How is this possible, you might be wondering? Well this twisted boy has it connected to a site where I can control and determine it. So through My finger tips, he would squirm, whimper, bend over and cry out in pain.

What a delicious cocktail of sadistic fun. Electro play or playing with electricity is really not for everyone but those of you that can handle the torture will find it a rewarding experience. Those delightful spams running through your otherwise useless dick all for the sake of entertaining Me, pleasing Me, showing Me just how far you are willing to go.

Does it go to eleven?

Sadly My Spinal Tap reference was lost as it did not have an eleven. But it was painful enough without such a high setting. Do you think you can handle some electro play? Can you handle the current rushing through your dick and the pain I rejoice in? Probably not! But that’s alright there are many other ways I can make you whimper!

Kneel for Maîtresse,

Ambre Jade

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Do NOT attempt to build something like this yourself. If you are not familiar with how things work leave them alone. you can easily purchase kits that will produce a similar effect!