Domme Dating
So those of you who know me well, or even a little, you are probably aware that dating, really not my thing. In fact, I cannot remember the last time I was actually on a date. I know it seems…
Domme Thoughts
Sex positive musing of a professional and lifestyle Domme.
Domme Thoughts
Sex positive musing of a professional and lifestyle Domme.
Category Domme Thought
I’m a Bitch
It’s true, I am a bitch! I like things the way I like them. I like when things run the way they should. I like when you do as you are told. It is a problem I have. Just because…
In Person or Online Domination
I am constantly hearing online subs complain that they cannot live the lifestyle to the full extent they want to because they are “only online subs”. What a bullshit statement!!! I get that life can get in the way, I…
Mourning the Loss of Intimacy
Things change! As much as we hate it, they change. Friendships end. Relationships change. What do we do when they change? When something is not necessarily lost but rather changed to such an extent that it feels like a loss.…
Pushing Too Hard
It happens, even to the most experienced of us. Sometimes we end up pushing to hard. We push our subs and slaves into situations they may not be ready for. The important part is communication between the two of you.…
When Self Confidence Falters
It is very rare that I have self confidence issues. I genuinely believe the hype about myself. I enjoy feeling superior and the similar sensations that sweep through an individual when they identify as Domme. There are moments though where my…
Guide to Keyholding
I have an extreme passion for chastity. I love every aspect of keeping my submissives chaste. Being a Keyholder is more than just holding a key in your hands. There are time when it can be a challenge, even a…
Viewing Your Domme as a Leader
While writing down the qualities I want to have as a Domme, I noticed that many of them emulated those of a great leader. A leader, to me, is not necessarily someone in a position of power but rather someone…
Understanding the Female Led Relationship
Before I had ever heard the phrase “female led relationship,” I had already adapted this model for my life. In the past, I would have identified as a feminist, believing that all parties are equal and deserve an equal voice within…
Understanding Desires
The work of a submissive and a Domme for that matter is never done. Both have to excel at understanding desires. On the side of the submissive, s/he must understand their own initial desires. This is of course before becoming…