Ambre Jade, Author at Domme Thoughts

Day 4: The Lover Who Believes in Monogamy

June 4, 2015 by Ambre Jadein Domme Thought

I have never believed in monogamy. It was never something I sought out nor something I idolized. I have no intentions of ever getting married, never have. I remember in my youth when other girls my age were playing wedding, I was out kicking boys in the junk (a Domme, I have always been). No dreams of white dresses or rings upon my fingers. I have been proposed to more than once. Each time, a well rehearsed refusal poured out of my lips before they had even finished getting down on one knee. I could always tell when someone was about to propose. I get it, I do. I am an amazing woman. Many people look at me and see a future. Sadly, it is not a shared vision. Their hearts get broken and then I usually lose them as a lover. Hard to get over your proposal being refused. Anyway, enough about marriage.

This is about monogamy. The idea of one individual being responsible for all my needs as a woman, seems so wrong to me. I know that is over simplifying the idea of monogamy but that is the basics as far as I see. And I am digressing again. SO monogamy, not something I ever saw myself doing or even wanting to do. One person? Just no.

060415 That being said, my lover is making noise about becoming monogamous, which is kind of hilarious for a different reason that is not my place to discuss. The interesting part about this, for the first time in my entire life I am actually considering such a relationship. Discussions have been had and I get to keep my subs, makes cuckolding far more fun. Beyond that, there is part of me that is perfectly comfortable with not finding more or new sex partners. My guy keeps me very satisfied. So am I accepting this voyage into monogamy because I am sated? Or am I actually more into this monogamy thing than I thought?

I suppose like with anything else it depends on the dynamic, of the people involved. Right now I am happy. Lucky him.

À bientôt,

Ambre Jade

Day 3: My Loose Morals and I

June 3, 2015 by Ambre Jadein Domme Thought1 Comment

It has recently come to my attention that certain people in my vanilla life have a morality issue with me. This concept is hilarious because these particular individuals have absolutely no idea how truly scruple-less I can be. They are unaware of my profession, completely oblivious to my relationships and in the dark about my deeper, darker fetishes. So how is it that they have a moral objection to me?

I genuinely have no idea. I also have no idea why this bothers me. It shouldn’t. They are obviously not a huge part of my life and they, themselves are kind of shitty people. They live their life with notes of racist behaviours and thoughts. A deep contempt for just about everyone who is not them. These individuals should not bother me. The idea that someone has a moral objection to me does not usually bother me. As a sex worker and someone who is pretty open about their sex life as well as someone who lives life against the grain of traditional society, it is not something new for me to be judged. People don’t necessarily understand me or my lifestyle. These women though, a mother and daughter duo that know very little about my life beyond my being a single parent and the fact that my son is mixed.

These women have the nerve to object to me morally for those things? I really do not understand it. There must be some crazy mixed in there somewhere. And now that I have vented, I am not as bothered, I think it just needed to come out…

And those are my Domme Thoughts of the day, rambly though they may be 😉

Oh and as promised yesterday:

20150603_114127 — My lovely breasts in my new bra 🙂

À bientôt,

Ambre Jade

Femdom Manners

June 3, 2015 by Ambre Jadein Femdom, Sessions2 Comments

There are some Femdom manners that can be taught, some that are intuitive and others that can be forced. There are manners and protocols that are unique to the Domme you are serving and others that have their place in the vanilla world. I am sitting in a cafe (a common setting for Me while writing) and am noticing a rather appalling sight. Far too many people are not free with their manners. Pleases and thank yous have become a rarity and casual polite statements are limited. It reminded Me of the hundreds of request I get from people wanting to be My slave, submissive, toy, etc.

It made Me think, it is time for a Femdom Manner review… how would your manners hold up when interacting with Me. Think of Me as Ms Manners. I don’t take on or even entertain the idea of keeping a submissive with poor manners. So let this be a lesson 🙂

Femdom Manners Checklist:

Did you say please and/or thank you? This applies to just about anything, if you are asking, it should have a please attached. If I have done something for you, even just reading your message, it should be thanked.
Are you making assumptions? This is a massive pet peeve of Mine!!! Like HUGE annoyance. It falls into the category of rude even. Don’t make assumptions.
Have you sent a dick pic? Just DON’T! It should go without saying but apparently people are not only rude but also tasteless. There is only one cock I want to see and it is not yours.
Communicating/Filling in an application without a tribute. This might seem like it only applies as a part of Femdom Manners but you should consider this even in your vanilla existence. No, I don’t mean you should send giftcards to people but a tiny gift, a token for their time makes you seem far more appreciative and something not easily forgotten.

This is by no means a complete list but think before you write. I do not accept or read through messages that seem like you are not minding your manners.

À bientôt,

Maîtresse Ambre Jade

MY STORE

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Day 2: Sexy New Bras

June 2, 2015 by Ambre Jadein Domme Thought

Finally, they came in. Last week or was it the week before? Anyway, not important. I went into my local bra shop, one that specializes in larger breasts, and had my measurements done. My body has been fluctuating so often with my karate practices and workouts. It was finally time to remeasure. Measurements completed and sizing all taken care off, unfortunately, I had to order my new bras. One was in stock but the other two I wanted needed to be ordered since I want the colours I want and I get what I want.

It’s a hard life sometimes 😉

Pictures to come!

À bientôt,

Ambre Jade

My Five Favourite Uses for Erotic Hypnosis

June 1, 2015 by Ambre Jadein Hypnosis1 Comment

There are so many uses for erotic hypnosis. The tool is really limitless in its capacity for BDSM. With so many possibilities, it is hard to pinpoint My favourites. Won’t stop Me from trying though 😉 I have decided to create a list with My five favourite uses. These are in no particular order. They are equal in My eyes, as far as how much I enjoy them. The biggest difference is the dynamic between between Myself and the subject. The dynamic is so important, as I have stated several times and will continue to repeat.

Five Uses for Erotic Hypnosis

Self Discovery. BDSM and Femdom are not necessarily associated with self discovery, though they should be. Erotic hypnosis is the perfect tool for discovering more about yourself as a sub as well as an individual. One can easily learn more about the deeper kinks that you were previously unaware of. It can bring to light the components that are keeping you from being truly vulnerable and under the influence of your Goddess.
Brainwashing and Thought Control. Whether using NLP or more classic erotic hypnosis, brainwashing is an absolute pleasure for Me as the HypnoDomme. Changing your view point and how you see the world and molding it to something I enjoy is so much fun. I genuinely believe the world would be a better place if I was in complete control of it and this is how I make that happen, one person at a time. This also creates a certain ownership.
Acceptance of past experiences. This would be less about the erotic aspect and more on the “Domme who wants Her subs to be at their best” side of things. A lot of us, Myself included, have traumas or experiences that shape our views. In some cases, this is negative.
Orgasm, erection, arousal control. Falls within brainwashing but I like to keep it as something completely separate. It is one thing to feel the power of making someone so intensely aroused that You are the only thing in their mind, it is a whole new level of power when I can have you thinking about Me, turned on, unable to focus and then suddenly shut down those responses. That My friends, it power.
Roleplays and Fantasies. This is a use for erotic hypnosis that I do not really use too frequently. I prefer to stay within reality and ultimate submission of the subject. Every now and then though, a subject comes up and fantasies, roleplays, and other-realmly experiences are perfectly suited to the dynamic.

This is by no means the only uses for erotic hypnosis, I have. Just a list of My favourites. What are your favourite uses? Favourite moments?

À bientôt,

Goddess Ambre Jade

MY STORE

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Day 1: Celebrating My Birthday

June 1, 2015 by Ambre Jadein Domme Thought

I have never been too enthusiastic about celebrating my birthday. From a really young age, it was never a very big deal. This weekend was no exception. My mother had surgery on Friday, filling my weekend with hospital visits and trying to keep her in good spirits. It is her birthing weekend celebrations as well and I believe that our mother’s should be celebrated for such things, regardless of what kind of relationship the two of you have, they brought you into this world and those moments should celebrated and they should be in your thoughts.

My celebrations on this day will consist of being worshiped (which is always wonderful), lunch with some friends, karate with my boy and a visit with some tasty dessert with my mother. It seems like a perfect celebration, other than the venue for my visit with mom.

Enjoy this day of celebration with me!

À bientôt,

Ambre Jade

30 Days of Domme Thoughts

May 31, 2015 by Ambre Jadein Domme Thought

I am challenging myself to post, capture, share, link, quote, etc. something every single day for the next thirty days! 30 Days of Domme Thoughts. My mind is constantly working, there are numerous thoughts that come and go. It is intense. There is always something to say, something to do, something to take pictures of! Say taking advantage of my wonderful Domme life and letting you in a little bit, lucky you 😉

Get a glimpse of my Goddess life and lifestyle, a touch of my personal life and tidbits from my everyday existence.

À bientôt,

Ambre Jade

Birthday Count Down

May 26, 2015 by Ambre Jadein Hypnosis

Guess whose Birthday is coming up? ME!!! SO exciting, I know. So how can you spoil Me for My birthday? So many ways:

MY BIRTHDAY WISHLIST (Amazon.ca)
GIFT ROCKET (sent to AmbientAmbre@gmail.com)
TRIBUTE (My Store)
TRIBUTE (Niteflirt)
Pay For My Karate Weekend (contact Me for details)
Write, create, draw something that shows how much you care for your Goddess

Celebrate My Birthday with Me… details on that to come

À bientôt,

Ambre Jade

Total Control By Ambre Jade

April 22, 2015 by Ambre Jadein Femdom

Total control is a surprisingly subjective concept. For each Domme and each sub, the idea of what constitutes total control varies. One would assume it would be obvious. your Domme controls every action, every thought, every moment of your life. This is a valid definition and idea but how is that represented in a practical sense? For those who are not live in slaves, those who decide that a long distance relationship is more practical or those who have financial dealings with their Dommes, the idea of total control is a little more difficult to define and for some, even to perceive.

I receive a number of inquiries about how total control manifests itself with a relationship with Me. Many people have their own perceptions on how a total control dynamic should work or ideas on how it works that are different from My manifestation of this style of relationship. As the individual relationships in question, contribute a great deal to how it presents itself, it is easier for Me to list some misconceptions about total control that are just not valid when working with Me.

What Total Control by Ambre Jade is NOT about:

Ruining your current relationships. I am not about ruining your other relationships. Like your marriage or destroying the bond between you and your children, mother, aunt, family, etc. you can see where I am going here. I do not believe in the destruction of your marital status. That is a dynamic in which I can control how you behave. your Wife can give you things I cannot. I control how you interact with your Wife, partner, girlfriend, etc. I think these relationships should be cherished and I will determine how you can add to them.
Destroying your financial stability. A broke slave is a useless slave. I have no desires to strip you of every penny you have. What I do control, is how you spend. Potentially, how you can earn. I create and control the budget. Obviously a portion goes to Me!
Isolation. I do not want you completely isolated. I want you to have other relationships, friendships, dates, a social life. I do not want you completely isolated from society. I encourage you to go out, with My permission.
Being a doormat. you have hobbies, likes and dislikes, activities you enjoy, etc. Those should factor into My total control of you. If there is something within our dynamic that is not working, there is a time and a place to voice it. The time and the place will be determined by Me but you will have an opportunity to voice thoughts and concerns and all those fun things.

The most important thing when it comes to total control is FULL DISCLOSURE. I need to know about every aspect of your life in order to determine the who, what, where, when, why and hows of your new life. This is a serious commitment both from you and from Me. I am taking on the decisions and course of your life. That is a huge commitment from both of us. Total control is not something I would offer to just anyone. There has to be a good rapport between the two of us for it to be something we can work with.

À bientôt,

Mistress Ambre Jade

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More on Hypnotic Intention

April 6, 2015 by Ambre Jadein Hypnosis

I have been focusing a lot on intention lately, in some of My blogs, My personal life and My one on one sessions. Hypnotic intention is a powerful, powerful thing. We create a certain energy through hypnosis, this is exceptionally true during an erotic hypnosis session. Raw sensual and sexual energy manifests within an erotic hypnosis session. Using hypnotic intention, you can use this energy to focus and fuel your day, your night, your goals. This works for the both the Hypnotist and the subject. The energy we create together can be focused on either a single task or separate tasks with hypnotic intention. It resembles the idea of a succubus, except you have access to that energy as well.

Hypnotic intention is a wonderful catalyst for your day. This was My intention in creating My Daily Hypnotic Affirmations. Which have been working wonderfully on those who use it religiously as well as occasionally. My current goal is to create an MP3, perhaps even a video to increase that erotic hypnosis energy and give you the ability to use that energy through hypnotic intention. Starting off your day with that extra power behind you, and some energy sent My way.

Combining focused intention, erotic hypnosis and hypnotic intention will prove to you that anything is truly possible. Submission of your mind, body and soul is apparent throughout your experiences both within a session and within your daily life. Submit yourself to Me and see that anything is truly possible when you embrace the power of erotic hypnosis and hypnotic intention. This experience can potentially change your life for the better. That is the goal of any Domme really, to make life better for Her subjects as well as Herself.

Be on the look out for My morning MP3 and/or video intended to gather and use the sensual energy created through the session and use hypnotic focus to keep it with you throughout the day.

À bientôt,

Goddess Ambre Jade

MY STORE

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