As I show him the pictures I keep adding more LMFAO! A great way to be entertained!
And then he started running his mouth, trying to tell Me what to do to him. This is not acceptable behaviour in any way!!!
And so he must be punished! 50 slaps with a slipper repeating “i do not make decisions” with every slap.
Then I sent him to the store, wearing pants and his jacket, no shirt. The jacket is to be open the whole time he is shopping!
Erotic hypnosis has a massive variety of manifestations. Stream of consciousness, guided imagery and ASMR to name a few. (A quick shout out to My wonderful Friend Haylee, who has created some wonderful ASMR youtube videos, check out Her most recent one Hypnosis is Fake). An aspect of erotic hypnosis that I have not touched on as much as others is focused intention. This style like all components of erotic hypnosis, manifests in many ways. Each person uses this technique differently. I love this technique. I love the mental exercise involved and how one can either make a session devoted entirely to focused intention or it can be used within a session to deepen and strengthen eroticism and worship (just to name a few).
My current karate training is actually what brought about My thoughts revolving around focused intention. It is something that comes up frequently and I thought to Myself “Why not create something, record something that uses this thought process only?” So I did. Mental exercises can deepen just about any experience, why not use it to deepen your need for Me? Why not create an environment where I stimulate your mind, where I focus your mind more completely to Me.
Aren’t I nice creating this for you? Focused intention is all about exercising your mind.
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Enjoy your focused intention experience.
À bientôt,
Goddess Ambre Jade
888 726-2447
Multiple orgasms can be yet another tool in My belt. Hypnosis, specifically erotic hypnosis creates an environment in which all things are possible. And where sometimes I prefer chastity, or more restrained submission, multiple orgasms certainly have their place within the realm of mental assault on your being. When one accepts that orgasms are a form of submission, that each venture over that plateau represents your submission going deeper, it is easy to see where multiple orgasms provide a source of power. A continuous reminder of My never ending control of your cock.
Thoughts on cock control usually bring about discussions that centre around chastity and being chaste. But proper cock control is more than that. I determine when, where and how you orgasm. Accomplishing multiple orgasms while deep under hypnosis provides not only a relatively unique experience but it also creates a reminder that it you belong to Me. I can easily drain you into exhaustion so that even if you thought you could break My control, it becomes physically impossible to do so. Impossible to do so without Me. I am the only source of pleasure you need or desire. My words and My influence runs through you like nothing else.
Without hypnosis as a tool, there are few men that can achieve multiple orgasms without spending a huge amount of time training themselves. And while it is possible to do so, in My experience, men generally lack the ability to push themselves in that direction effectively. Hypnosis, My influence acts as the proper motivation needed to experience such a sensation. It eases you into the experience without spending the time necessary to train. This can actually serve as a starting point to further train yourself or as a catalyst to a quest for further knowledge. Cock control is not limited to chastity. Multiple orgasms and even a single orgasm under My influence is a reflection of cock control. Multiple orgasms just add a unique flavour that some would never otherwise experience.
Do you have any experiences with multiple orgasms? With or without a hypnotic influence?
À bientôt,
Goddess Ambre Jade
888-726-2447
Lately I have been doing a great many Goddess Worship Sessions. It has been magnificent. My body gets sore after so many hours of working, working out, karate, just life in general and to end My day with a good puppy rubbing, massaging, caressing My skin. Lucky boy, isn’t he? These Goddess Worship sessions can last hours. It is absolute bliss for both of us. Not everyone gets or deserves such luxury. Worshiping, though it might seem straightforward, training it important. There are some key factors that will determine how such a session will work out.
Who are you doing this for? Are you worshiping your Goddess for you or for Her? If you are doing it for you, that is not Goddess Worship, it is a personal indulgence and you are not worshiping for the right reasons. Yes, you can be doing it for yourself as well but the main focus should always be your Goddess. Compare it to prayer. Prayers to a Goddess can be self but your intentions should always be to praise Her first!
What makes your Goddess unique? Before Goddess worship sessions, you should reflect on the the reasons you worship your Goddess. What makes Her special? What compels you to worship Her? This tiny effort will not go unnoticed. Some Goddess thrive of the personal touches you can add. During Goddess worship sessions, I have had people worship Me for just being Superior. It is wonderful but that a little effort in making it more personal would have gone a long way!
Does your vision of Goddess worship reflect that of your Goddess? I have had some subs contact Me for a worship session and then turn it into pussy worship, them wanting to lick at My pussy for hours… Now, this is not the type of worship that just any inferior can partake in with Me. In fact to Me, it is not worship at all. The word worship comes in as an excuse to get your tongue on My clit. I don’t like it (I do enjoy the act of oral stimulation but I do not like someone thinking they can put their tongue on My skin without working for it). I don’t tolerate it. Goddess worship sessions have a deeper connection than that.
So before Goddess worship sessions, think and reflect. Have a game plan. A fumbling worship session is cute once in awhile but it gets old pretty quickly.
À bientôt,
Maîtresse Ambre Jade
Not everyone has the ability to follow the hypnotic flow during a hypnosis session. Trusting the flow of an individual’s mind can be intimidating. Instead of forcing, bending and manipulating your mind, I follow where is takes Me. I follow your initial thoughts and see where they will lead. A change in your behaviour, say if I am focused on a behaviour modification session, I must first know where the natural behaviour comes from. Before influencing any changes or forcing My Own will on your subconscious, it is important for Me to follow the natural hypnotic flow of your mind.
The process of allowing the natural hypnotic flow to happen can be intimidating to some. It gives the illusion of My having less control and you, the subject having more freedom. Those without experience see this as a negative. When you have the right confidence in yourself you realise that information is power and knowing how your natural hypnotic flow goes, gives Me information. It gives Me insight into how your mind makes connections. This allows Me to manipulate effectively. Following you hypnotic flow and making it flow in the directions I want it to. Using the information I gather to My advantage.
The true power comes with the ability to use your hypnotic flow in a way that makes the conversions in your mind natural. When done properly, you will not even notice the subtle changes within you. The new programming flows naturally, creating connections so deep and so permanent that your new state of being will give the impression that it has always been there. None of your defenses stand a chance. This is the advantage of following the hypnotic flow and not being intimidated by the subject’s natural state. As always, information is power and when your mind is open to Me, there is no information I cannot get My soft fingertips on.
À bientôt,
Goddess Ambre Jade
With the fucking joke BDSM “themed” piece of shit book and what I am assuming will also be a shitty film, 50 Shades of Grey gaining so much popularity, it is impossible to have a casual conversation without BDSM coming up. Now, I live a life where the majority of the people within my social circle are either proponents of the BDSM lifestyle, live the lifestyle or at least grasp the basic understanding of the D/s relationship. I am not about to write about the book or the film, I read the book, so I could but there is already quality information on the subject and I really do not feel like getting into it. I have seen enough on the subject and read enough on the subject. What I am enjoying though is the casual conversations that bring up BDSM.
I feel that all of us who are proponents of the D/s lifestyle should take advantage of the casual conversations about the film and the book, to really properly explain what BDSM is and how it is not properly reflected within the book. Communication is important and now with the line of communication open we should be taking advantage and advocate for safe, sane and consensual play (which is not well represented in the books).
My mother and I had a conversation on BDSM, D/s, and just sexual relationships in general this morning. My mother and I talk very freely with each other about sexuality, even our own personal sexual experience. My mother, who is not into BDSM, understands the principles and the teachings of SSC (safe, sane and consensual) and finds the whole lifestyle intriguing. We have had several conversations on BDSM. She knows that I both profit from (as a pro Domme) and live this lifestyle. She accepts it and defends my lifestyle choices with relatives and the like, a discussion for another time.
This morning we talked about the abusive nature of 50 Shades and how dangerous this is to those new to the lifestyle. Without the proper knowledge, people can get hurt. Abuse and power exchange can look very similar when you do not have the experience, the knowledge and the sometimes common sense understanding of a proper D/s relationship. We, as in those of us with the knowledge and/or experience should feel morally, ethically obligated to open the dialogue and have conversations on BDSM. Not just among our peers. Not just with people who have the same fundamental values but with those wanting to explore the lifestyle or those who are interested in pursuing their lustful thoughts into that direction.
So let’s as a community take advantage of the current pop culture BDSM bullshit and have conversations on BDSM, real BDSM and you never know, we might be the difference between someone experiencing abuse and someone empowering themselves through submission.
À bientôt,
Ambre Jade
In My experience, fear and desire go hand in hand. What an individual fears is on many occasions something they desire. And vice versa. As you may have noticed this week I am focusing on fear, as I think it is an important part of your experience with a Domme. Fear plays a massive part on how we react to stimuli, how we perceive danger vs pleasure. So why would it not play a huge part in our desires? Our desires, our deep desires, the ones we do not like to talk about, often come from a place of fear. Fear and desire go together. They create a delicious ebb and flow between emotions, reactions and submission.
In our fantasies, in our imaginations we have the ability to create any scenario and the fear we feel, is less “real” making it safe to explore without worrying about the consequences. Think about it for a moment. If you reflect enough, find one of those fantasies you “want” to live out but haven’t yet, is fear not the biggest reason you have not lived it out? And would it not also be true to say that fear, the fear within the experience is what adds the spice to the fantasy? Fear and desire, fear and fantasy, fear plays a big role.
A huge fantasy that comes up when I work with someone, probably the most popular, is the idea of total Domination over that person’s life. Every action, every desire, every breath needs permission from Me. The desire for this ultimate submission is strong for many submissive people. But the fear of a total lack of control makes them hesitant. The fear of the experience, the fear of not knowing what your Dominant will request of you, is a HUGE part of the desire. Two different fears, two different ways they can manifest.
There are many fantasies and scenarios that show the playful interaction between fear and desire. The best representation, rather the easiest to see the flow between fear and desire is blackmail. Blackmail is a massive fetish. It represents a good portion of My sessions, not all but My having an interrogation fetish means it is easy to add to sessions, but I digress. Blackmail is based on the fear of getting caught. The heart racing, autonomic response to fear heightens the desire, makes the experiences that much more pleasurable. Fear in this instance is a tool.
What fear do you have that goes with your desire? Where does fear and desire work for you?
À bientôt,
Maîtresse Ambre Jade
Fear and hypnosis might not seem like good friends. BUT with the right guide (HypnoDomme), they can compliment each other quite well. Firstly let’s make the distinction between genuine fear and being a whining “i’m so scared Goddess” bitch. I often receive emails, messages and the like from people claiming to want to serve, but fearing the consequences. It is difficult from the point of view of the reader to determine who is trying to waste My previous time and who is genuinely afraid. Difficult but not impossible. I have a pretty good feel for who is playing games and who is actually feeling fearful but wants to pursue such a serious endearvour. A discussion for later. Right now, I would just like for you to see the difference between actual fear and playing games.
So those of you who are afraid, congratulations! you realised the implications of true submission. you know that this is more than a fetish. That this way of being is a lifestyle and one that you would like to adopt to your own life. Feeling fear does not make you weak. It makes you conscious of the changes that will potential happen when you give up your free will! I always delight when people tell Me they have been afraid to contact Me, been following Me from afar, too afraid to do more than that. But now they are ready to embrace this lifestyle.
The fear response varies from one person to the next. Generally they fall under the three automatic nervous system reactions: fight, flight or freeze. These responses, human and animal responses to fear affect the mind in such a powerful way. It is reflexive, instinctive. There are few ways around it. Time is a factor if you want to work around your responses. That can be challenging, expensive but certainly worth every moment and penny you spend on yourself in that way. But how does one work with fear and hypnosis without overreaching the limitations of wallet and time? Ultimately, there is no answer. No easy way around it. There is however a way to work with your responses. To satisfy both your autonomic nervous system and your desire to submit.
The body’s response to fear floods your body with hormones. What a wonderful addition to erotic hypnosis. In this way, your fear is helping Me. It is aiding Me in creating the perfect environment to manipulate your thoughts. The key is understanding how and why you react the way you do, and using that to My advantage. This is to say you and I work together, we work with those responses making them both erotic and exciting.
So feel the fear with Me. Feel it and share it with Me.
À bientôt,
Goddess Ambre Jade
What’s in a name? The use of titles in BDSM and other kink communities is extremely common. As they should be. This piece is by no means a criticism of those who like using titles or who feel titles are important part of their relationships. I adore titles, when they are used properly. Very often, when first contacting Me, people refer to Me as Mistress. I have no problems with that. It is a non issue but what have I accomplished, how have I earned that title from you? Is it respectful? Absolutely but the use of it with minimal interaction reminds Me how easy it is to get caught up in using titles in BDSM.
Think about it. I have never met you before. I have never had any form of interaction with you before but already you call Me Mistress. It diminishes the significance of titles in BDSM when you use it so freely. Some people are programmed that way. They automatically feel that a Woman should be referred to as Mistress, or Goddess or Lord, etc. I by no means, think you should stop this behaviour. If you feel it is right for you to use that title then by all means. But titles in BDSM should have a deeper significance. A more personalised touch when referring to someone with a title.
I have titles in BDSM that I prefer, ones that work best as a HypnoDomme vs FinDomme or FemDomme vs Lifestyle Domme. There is a lot of weight in titles. There is nothing wrong with titles in BDSM. There is power in titles! A lot of power. But the power exchange happens once the relationship has been established. Very often I receive emails that are similar to the following:
Hello Mistress,
i am not sure how to refer to You. i hope Mistress is okay…
My response is usually along the lines of, titles should be earned. you should feel compelled to call Me by a title because you know that fundamentally I am above you. I prefer that people refer to Me as Ms Ambre Jade until we have a connection. That being said, I understand that people like titles in BDSM immediately. submissives like knowing there is something they can call Me from the get go. So I do not stop you from using a title, unless I feel it is a title that has absolutely no merit in its description of Me like Princess (I hate being referred to as Princess, I know many Princesses who love the term, it just does not work for Me.).
So why am I telling you all this? Why are titles in BDSM so important? Beyond the power exchange and protocols, titles and how you refer to Me during our first few interaction gives Me an idea about the type of submissive you are. Are you someone who refers to everyone as Mistress? Do you not feel people should earn their names and titles? It is another way I can read you. So think about your liberal use of titles in BDSM. Think about how important that title truly is. Does it accurately describe the person? Or are you using it out of habit?
Just some thoughts for your day!
À bientôt,
Maîtresse (title) Ambre Jade
888 726-2447
When I first started dabbling in hypnosis it was not for erotic or Domme purposes. The role it played in My life was very specific and I used it on rather rare occasions even though I have always been quite skilled. One of the most effect styles, if you will, for Me during that time was guided imagery hypnosis. This is apparent in a great many of My recordings as well as My style in general. I love the combination of detailed but creative scene description combined with poetic prose. As My experience in HypnoDomination increases with time, now at almost 4 years, I have begun combining guided imagery hypnosis with erotic hypnosis.
Guided imagery is a process of focuses the mind’s imagination on a specific goal or task and seeing the most positive outcome in as much detail as possible. Depending on how you use this, this can be applicable to a large variety of situation. When making it a guided imagery hypnosis session, you are creating a link between the conscious and subconscious dimensions of imagination. Allowing both programming and personal growth using this technique.
It is rather obvious that guided imagery hypnosis can be used in a huge variety of ways. As well as on an almost unlimited number of levels. Each process within our being functions at a certain vibration, if you will. If you look at pain for example, you have the biological, the nervous system, the endocrine system, the psychological, and more. Now using guided imagery hypnosis, one can simply tap into the specific process. Say the endocrine system. The rush of endorphins and other hormones through the body. Visualising the hormones, where they go, how they function, to what extent you feel them can be played with, effectively making them more or less effective in their function. Guided Imagery Hypnosis gives them form, gives them a presence you can control and sense.
Seeing the potential for an erotic component to guided imagery does not a HypnoDomme take. But a proper HypnoDomme and a properly educated Individual can work the erotic into guided imagery hypnosis with both ease and effectiveness. Guided imagery hypnosis always works best when focused on one specific part of you. One set goal in mind. Without a goal, it is rather pointless. If you are unsure of your goal, speak with your Hypnotist to find the right one for you and the right way to make your hypnotic goal a reality.
Some would argue that guided imagery is more a form of meditation than a hypnosis session. I am not one to argue. I don’t believe arguing accomplishes very much. So I will let them have their guided imagery as meditation because I genuinely feel that it can be both. Both a tool within a hypnosis session as well as a tool for effective meditation. And really is hypnosis not a more directed form of meditation? So let’s imagine together and see what we find. Let’s use guided imagery hypnosis as a proper tool and see what we can achieve.
À bientôt,
Goddess Ambre Jade
888 726-2447
