Ambre Jade, Author at Domme Thoughts

A Special Chaste Anniversary

October 17, 2014 by Ambre Jadein Femdom, Fetish, Sessions2 Comments

A year in chastity! Being chaste long term is not for everyone. In fact, off the top of My head, I can only think of a handful of people that could actually make such a commitment to chastity! It is not an easy experience. And My puppy did make a couple of mistakes in the last three years. But over the last year, I have been incredibly impressed with his devotion! he did however have one orgasm through this year. A single release, that was not sanctioned by Me.

This release, this cock up in his year long chaste devotion was not the result of a purposeful orgasm and occurred while he was sleeping. Since it was through no fault of his own, I have decided to exclude it! he paid Me a hefty sum in his quest for forgiveness. My decision to exclude this dreaming, sleeping orgasm was a difficult conclusion to come to. On the one hand, he fucking came, without permission. On the other, he was in a state of sleep and he could not physically stop this orgasm. The sleeping orgasm was not experienced as a pleasure, rather he woke up to a wet bed. I am sure he loves Me sharing these details LOL!

The lack of pleasure was the main component, the main factor in My decision to keep his chaste record clear. his honesty about the experience, his willingness to confess this sin to Me also meant that I was willing to forgive his transgression. There are certain things we as human beings can control. When the pent up need for release becomes a biological need as opposed to a desire for pleasure, there is a need for milking. Since My puppy and I do not live together and live a significant distance from one another, the milking option was not available to us. So the body found a way.

A lesson was learned for both of us. Being chaste, especially for the long term is a massive commitment on both the key holder and the chaste individual. For males, the body needs a certain release but that does not automatically mean there will be pleasure surrounding it. My puppy did not feel the potential pleasure of that orgasm. Had he been in a state where he was awake and completely conscious, it could have been dealt with in a different way. A milking would have made a difference, iMo. But hindsight is 20/20.

Before you embark on a long term chaste agreement, make sure you are ready to embrace every aspect of it. Short term chastity is a pleasure as well. I consider the two entirely different. More on that later.

À bientôt,

Maîtresse Ambre Jade

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Day 6: Describe Your Weirdest or Most Interesting Fantasy

October 7, 2014 by Ambre Jadein Femdom, Sessions5 Comments

I have a great collection of fantasies! Many of which I like to keep a bit more private, so I will share this interesting fantasy. It is likely to not be a surprise to those of you who know Me. I have a rather intense relationship with CFNm and as such I have a fantasy that appeals to Me that reflects that fetish. Normally, My fantasies do not remain fantasy, they become reality and this is an interesting fantasy that would make a wonderful scene. I am really looking forward to the opportunity to play this one out 🙂

So what is this interesting fantasy? It’s a tea party! Not just any tea party. The Guests will all be Domme Friends of Mine. Dressed in high tea clothing, Everyone looking absolutely gorgeous. Of course, We are not going to serve Ourselves. That’s where you come in! Naked boys, bois and me serving Us. Well, not completely naked, a lovely bow tie around each of your necks, collars for those who are collared. What a lovely and interesting fantasy, yes? So much potential.

I find this to be an interesting fantasy for many reasons. Beyond My love of CFNm (clothed Female naked man), this fantasy also touches on My love of humiliation, some teasing, some Voyeurism, because let’s be honest, someone is going to be tortured by one of Us lovely Dommes! How fun would it be for you to put on a show for Us? So many ways this delightfully interesting fantasy could play out! I would prefer that it was a larger group of Dommes and several slaves serving Us. There is also a certain piece of Us being dressed in high tea clothing. That We are dressed conservatively and you, naked, bow tied potentially plugged and caged. What a beautiful image!!!

What is your weirdest of most interesting fantasy? Would you partake in My fantasy?

Want to read more about My 30 Days of Kink? Check it out!

À bientôt,

Maîtresse Ambre Jade

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The Varying Niveaus of Hypnotic Submission

October 6, 2014 by Ambre Jadein Hypnosis2 Comments

It seems to Me that everyone responds differently to various erotic hypnotic stimuli. For some their hypnotic submission is so complete a single word passing from between My lips causes their mind to open completely and obey without a single question or concern. For others, they have a similar response to certain trigger words, some created through post hypnotic suggestion and some just have exaggerated responses to specific words. Good boy is a popular one and a personal favourite of Mine. Though its use has become far to common place for Me. I desire being different. Plus, this post is not about post hypnotic suggestion. This is about the different responses and different levels of hypnotic submission.

One could easily argue that the variety of hypnotic submission can easily be attributed to conditioning, to the frequency with which you submit to erotic hypnosis. Though I do believe there is a certain truth to that, I do not believe it is the only factor at play. Some individuals are just more naturally incline to hypnotic submission. Letting go for them is completely effortless. This niveau, level of hypnotic submission does not necessarily make these individual BETTER in any way. Easier perhaps but you know what they say “easy come, easy go.” In My experience those that do not feel you are challenging them are more likely to be a short term submissive. Generalisation? Absolutely! But true to a certain extent. This is why I make it My purpose to make sure there is always a higher hypnotic submission niveau for you to travel to!

When hypnotic submission is more challenging, the relationship tends to last longer. Both the subject and the Hypnotist have a certain determination to create a more complete submission. For Me, anyway, I find this type of relationship appealing. There is a certain challenge in assuring that both subject and Hypnotist do not get bored. Yeah, sometimes I get bored and it makes Me not want to pursue a deeper niveau of hypnotic submission from you.

There are many subtle different shades. Individual are not necessarily one or the other. Someone can fall in between. Even more interesting in My oppinion is that an individual can normal be a challenging subject but once they find the right erotic Hypnotist, their hypnotic submission becomes more quick and easy! Where do you fall on this? Do you believe conditioning is the main factor? Do you believe your natural state is more at play? Or do you believe it depends on the Hypnotist and how you two mesh together?

Be on the look out for Part 2 of this discussion into hypnotic submission.

À bientôt,

Goddess Ambre Jade

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October #FOTM: SpH

October 1, 2014 by Ambre Jadein Femdom, Fetish

October is going to be a fun ass month!!! sph, small penis humiliation is the #FOTM for us at the Femdom Devotionals forum! So much fun. I have talked about both the #FOTM and Our forum before so I will not get into that but sph 😀 So fun!

I love this fetish! The funniest part about sph when I am on one on one sessions with people is that about 75% of the people I talk to feel the need to tell Me that in reality it isn’t as small as they claim during the session. What a hilarious response! I mean, cher, doesn’t matter how big or small you are, we will not be fucking! Do you do that? Do you feel the need to express your actual size? Maybe it is a component of the aftercare necessary on the part of the sub. I still find it amusing!

So what can you look forward to this month from Myself, Empress Vox Siren and Princess Indigo this month? SO many things!!! We haven’t completely figured out Our schedule but let Me tell you, the shit We have come up with for you is fucking golden! Brutal but erotic as fuck! you weaklings will have no idea what has hit you until it is too late!

But What is SpH?

Small penis Humiliation is usual a verbal assault on your manhood or rather lack there of! Everyone has a different way of approaching it, a different way it manifests in Their sessions. One of My favourite things to do is force you to find an instrument of measure, a ruler, a penis, something where size comparison is obvious and force you to voice what a teenie tiny weenie you have! It’s fucking delicious when you realise you are completely ill equipped when it comes to satisfying Me in a sexual way. All you can offer is your humiliation for My entertainment! My being entertained is important.

Are you the owner of a teenie weenie? Is it so small you have never felt anything while fucking another person? Tell Me about it! And pay your teenie weenie tax!

Teenie Weenie Tax:

À bientôt,

Maîtresse Ambre Jade

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Day 4 and 5: Kinky Experiences

October 1, 2014 by Ambre Jadein Femdom4 Comments

Let’s talk about some kinky experiences! So I am combining Day 4 and 5 of My 30 Days of kink for a few reasons, first off, I am behind in My writing and want to write an actual blog post today 😉 and second, they seem to fit well together!

Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks?

Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience? If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen.

Well as I discussed yesterday, Day 3, I have really always been kinky. But there were some early kinky experiences that, in retrospect, hinted at My current identifier as a Domme. I always had a thing for teasing, what I would now describe as torturous tease and denial sessions were My Saturday nights, combined with some forced exposing. I always loved how people would react to the tiniest touches of My fingers, how the breathing would change, how desperately their hips would try to rock in hopes of My fingers applying more pressure or even allowing a release. These reactions were always done in front of My current lover but never with. (I prelude to My love of cuckolding, perhaps)! There was something about both those boys suffering at My hands that was so deeply satisfying. The specific kinky experience I am playing in My mind, the one I am writing about, involved someone who was My boyfriend (I guess you would call him, remember I was quite young, young enough I do not want to state My age on here) and a mutual friend. There were several of us, just sitting around doing, well, we were smoking things 😉 So a group of easily about 8 people. Including Myself, My boyfriend at the time and the boy I really enjoyed teasing! I still remember quite clearly sliding My fingers over the teased boy’s pants, the feel of him hard under his pants, touching the head while staring right into the eyes of My boyfriend. Wow, the clarity of this memory is actually quite shocking, I had all but forgotten about these moments, these hidden times with friends. I suppose this was the real moment where it first came up.

It’s funny because during this kinky experience, I honestly had no idea how deviant this behaviour actually is. I mean, I suppose compared to My current fetishes and kinks this looks like innocent touching between friends, but I doubt those two men have the same perception of their boyhood experiences with Me. To them the torture was so clear right away. I enjoyed that feeling, that power. There being witnesses to their surrender to Me only added to the experience, I had always been an exhibitionist. I wonder how they remember these moments. As I am writing this all down I am still amazed at how clear the memory is, how I can feel the sensations under My fingers each time I strike the keys. Maybe because that was the first circumcised cock I had every touched…

So there it is, My early kinky experiences, not even what I thought the answer would be, went even earlier into My reflection and remembered this… I think I should call them 🙂

À bientôt,

Maîtresse Ambre Jade

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Getting Healthy Through Hypnosis

September 30, 2014 by Ambre Jadein Healthy Living, Hypnosis

There has been some discussion about getting healthy, losing weight, things of that nature on the Femdom Devotionals Forum, I participate in with Princess Indigo and Empress Vox (Hypnotic Haylee). Wouldn’t it be great if you could start getting healthy through hypnosis? If you could get healthy all for the love you feel for your Hypnosis Goddess! Well saddle up 🙂 We have some healthy living to discuss!!! I will be creating a series of files for those who will be participating in My Healthy Living Challenge for 30 Days.

I would like you to embrace the idea of getting healthy through hypnosis. Let’s use hypnosis as a tool to fortify your desire for healthy living. We can use it to increase your resolve and devotion to creating a new lifestyle and adjusting your relationship with food. There are so many tiny things you can do to embrace a healthier lifestyle and I would like My subjects, submissives, slaves, puppies, etc to all be as healthy as they can be!

Healthy Through Hypnosis and Healthy Living Challenge

This process is going to be difficult for some. This is not something to take on, thinking it can be accomplished casually. There will be diet (by diet I only mean what you ingest, I do not believe in fad diets or quick slim downs etc) monitoring and discussion, nutritional requirement talks, work out planning, meal planning, basically your life will be Mine for the next 30 days! Discussion on past events, cravings, changing and adapting to new food relationships, cooking discussions. you can easily see where I am going with all this!

I will not only be your Goddess but also your controller, your Life Coach, your Confidante and so much more. I will learn everything about you. And you will gladly share it with Me.

I am really excited for this project. So here is what you need to do for Me, this is going to be Day One’s release but we can take sneak a looksie 😉

Join My Fitness Pal, I am on there it is an easy way to keep track of everything
Become My friend on there, My profile is: http://www.myfitnesspal.com/AmbreJade
Follow My Healthy For Ambre blog, join it, participate
And more…

Some side notes before you get all over excited, I am not a trainer, I can only offer My personal thoughts. If you are new to exercising talk to you MD, talk to your MD if you have health issues and the like as well… This is for entertainment purposes only!

There will be a variety of hypnosis sessions available related to getting Healthy for Ambre! Including a Quit Smoking hypnosis session. Be on the look out as well for Doll Time 2, Corridors 3 and Mummy Wrapped (working title;) )!

Have you been keeping up with My 30 Days of Kink? Check it out on My Doctrine Site!

À bientôt,

Ambre Jade

Day 3: Kinky Discovery

September 30, 2014 by Ambre Jadein Femdom4 Comments

I have always been kinky. So having this sudden kinky discovery moment does not exist for Me! Though My kinks have certainly evolved over time. Read about 30 Days of Kink!

I remember when My sexual experiences only manifested as fantasy, I mean before I had even had sex. I remember all My fantasies involved or had some aspect of kink to them. I never fantasised about vanilla sex. There was always some form of power exchange. Binding, being bound were the first ones. Multiple partners of varying gender, the use of violence during fucking, choice being removed. Things of that nature.

When I finally involve others in My sexual experiences they were almost always kinky. My first lover and I were complete exhibitionists. (Oh how things change lol)! Part of the intensity involved in our love making was that anyone could see at any moment and many times there were others watching. We involved other women, we would tie each other up. He was a very good person to have as a first lover. His hedonism was matched by Mine and together we explored. Now keep in mind we were quite young, so our kinky discovery was somewhat limited by school, family, curfews, laws, etc! We were each game for anything the other suggested.

As time went by there were lovers, there were one night stands, there were many things that continued in My hedonist expression of sex. My more extreme kinky discovery happened after a long period of time of celibacy (a story for another time, if ever). I took on a lover, who was amazing! He was both an exceptional lover and incredibly submissive. Though, I do not think he completely realised the extent he was willing to submit but story for another time. He loved getting pegged, he loved wearing My panties. He was incredibly open to so many experiences and I fell that through his acceptance I began to flower as the Domme I am today. This is where I began seeing Myself as a bit more Dominant. I suppose this discussion should wait until DAY 4! Let’s just say, for now, that I began to bloom. The seeds that wear originally planted in My early youth began to grow roots and try to find their way to the surface.

Day 2: List your kinks

September 27, 2014 by Ambre Jadein Femdom1 Comment

My Kinks? Day 2 of the 30 Days of Kink! Seems like an easy enough question to answer but like everything I make it complicated 😉 I can find many, many things to be sexually stimulating, some things I would have never thought of until I have the right partner. Also there are a few kinks I have that I prefer to keep to Myself as I do not want them to bleed into My work Self. If that makes sense.

My biggest kink is Mind Control and Mental BDSM. I love using hypnosis and other techniques to control every aspect of another’s mind. This passion runs deep within Me. Anything involving an exchange of power, control over another is such an erotic thing to Me. Though hypnosis and NLP are My main ways to flex My muscles as it were, there are so many other things I enjoy. Physical bondage, there are few things sweeter than a sub all roped up waiting on Me. Forcing My will on them. Orgasm control, forced masturbation, CFMn, the list goes on. There are just so many things I enjoy.

I enjoy keeping My slaves chaste, I want every single erotic thought to have Me in it. Every time you get aroused and have no ability to release or touch even. Reminders that your key is around My neck.

I love scenes of interrogation. Using My control over you or physically forcing you to tell the truth, to get to an answer, to get the result I want. There is a HUGE part of Me that likes analysis. I enjoy analyzing every way you respond, every answer you give Me, every quickening within your body. I love just finding out more.

I am slightly sadistic and therefore I enjoy inflicting a certain amount of torture over another person. CBT, pussy or nipple torture all things I enjoy giving, things I enjoy watching you try to deal with.

Everything comes down to power exchange for Me. Everything I do. I am open to so many different kinks, I have yet to experience a kink that I have not enjoyed. OK, no that is a lie, there are some things I do not enjoy and that will be talked about later in this series.

Let’s for a moment talk about My kinks in terms of what I fantasize about when I masturbate, (yes, I do masturbate 😉 ) for Me, I have always had a thing for puppy play. It is all about the build up for Me. I like to visualise My inspection of the puppy before I take them on. Of judging them on their responses to My touches or how they hold themselves, things of that nature. For Me that is My strongest fantasy at the moment.

À bientôt,

Maîtresse Ambre Jade

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Day 1: Dom, sub or Switch

September 26, 2014 by Ambre Jadein Femdom1 Comment

This is Day One, in My 30 days of kink; Dom, sub or switch?

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.

I am most definitely a Domme (Dom, in the format of the question)! I have briefly and recently discussed My past experiences as a Switch on the FORUM so I will not get into that here. I believe what made Me actually feel like a switch or a sub in My past was that for a short time I could easily identify as a masochist. It could have been more a stage of exploration and discovery but I did self identify as such. These masochistic tendencies are what brought Me to the world of BDSM.

Though, I no longer identify as submissive, switch or masochist, I am grateful for the experiences and the sensation I felt while enjoy those scenes. Without them, I would not have been able to find My true calling as a Domme. I know there are many people who will read this and think that having subbed in the past makes Me less Dominant but you can kiss My ass. I owe you no explanation. I believe in honesty above all things and therefore My disclosure of past experiences.

I believe My time spent subbing and switching as well as My time experiencing torturous scene has created an incredibly well grounded, well educated, well rounded Domme.

Definitions are always difficult for Me. Especially when it comes to aspects of sexuality. Since sensuality, sexuality and kink are so fluid and the relationship within them so different from individual to individual it is difficult to create and apt definition.

I believe what makes a Domme, the main characteristic She has that let’s you know She is the one for you, is the ability to create an environment where the submissive can flourish. A relationship where the sub, slave, whatever descriptor you want to use, can blossom into something more than they were before their service. This applies to just about any D/s relationship. The qualities of a Domme and the qualities of a submissive is sooo dependent on the style of relationship they have.

My Dominance stems from a love of control, a need even. I micromanage, I am obsessive about things being done MY way. And though in some relationships that would be considered a negative, the style of relationships I have makes this quality a big plus 😉 It is one of the biggest attraction to BDSM that I have. I have discovered that I am slightly sadistic. What started as a curiosity and exploration as a maso was, retrospectively, a cry for knowledge about pain and an inability to morally get over Myself. This is a discussion that deserves its own post so I will get to that eventually 🙂

Being Dominant, is having power and using that power to mould your sub into your desire while simultaneously allowing them the oportunity to grow and bloom in Your service. This is what I hold Myself to and part of why I am so particular about who I am willing to take on as a permanent slave, PT or FT!

What are your definitions? How do you see yourself? Are you a Dom, sub or switch? Join this journey of 30 days of kink with Me and many others!

À bientôt,

Maîtresse Ambre Jade

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Your Orgasms Belong to Me

September 26, 2014 by Ambre Jadein Hypnosis

Yes, you read that correctly, every single one of your orgasms belong to Me! I am greedy. I do not care with whom you are having these orgasms, your wife, girlfriend, boyfriend, lover… every one of them belong to Me! Each time you orgasm, each time you succumb to your sexual desire and release, it makes more room for Me and My influence inside you. Every sensation ripens you for a more intense submission to Me. Every stroke, every thought, every moment of arousal, those are all Mine! I am greedy, I know what is Mine to take and Mine to have.

Those orgasms belong to Me. They are Mine. There is no need for Me to forceful make this so. you give them up of your own free will. Well, what is left of your free will. An orgasm for Me, for Ambre Jade is more intense than any other orgasm you have had in the past. It rocks through you with such intensity that a desire to cum in any other way is non existent. Every orgasm for Ambre Jade. Every sensation for Ambre Jade. There is no other arousal or sensation that could even compare.

The feeling that your orgasms belong to Me can be manipulated and exemplified through the use of erotic hypnosis. The sensations can become even more intense, more deeply seeded. Desire for orgasm is replaced with a desire to submit to Me, whether or not an orgasm is something you are allowed to have, or in a position to have. The tiniest tinges of arousal, the slightest amount of swelling brings your thoughts directly to Me, to being under My influence. Every orgasm is like a prayer to Me, a calling out to show your devotion. It is Mine and you give it to Me of your own volition. Anything for Ambre Jade.

À bientôt,

Goddess Ambre Jade